My wife has been diagnosed with a hormone problem after coming off breastfeeding a couple months ago. She has been seeing a psychiatrist and a therapist. Her cycle is all messed up too.

Sex is at about once a week, maybe less. Mostly unenthusiastic but once warmed up gets into it.

She says “I feel pressured to have sex, not you pressuring me, but that i’m not meeting your needs, I know i’m not.” And that her acting weird she is worried “will affect our relationship”

I still can’t help but think that her actions are a bit weird…a couple random times, early in the morning, she jumped me all horned up. Then other times she offers duty sex.

But i’m honestly taking this as low attraction too. The pressure line seems like a BS excuse for me. This can’t all be hormonal, right?

I’ve been hitting the weights and am in pretty good shape, 5’9 182lbs mid-high teens body fat. Recently planned an entire vacation from start to finish for the family. Made reservations for dinners, etc. Not DEERing.

I’m wondering if you all are buying this as a reason she feels this way.