1. “You look Greek” or “Mediterranean”

  2. “You don’t look 36…I know this guy that looks 36 and he looks way older.”

  3. Semi-negative tone answers to questions, with a slight head shake and deepening of voice. Slightly playful.

  4. Stepping over something wearing a skirt and saying “I’m sorry (your name)” because you might see up her skirt, rather than just saying nothing.

  5. Asking your girlfriend if you were in her part of town, what kind of car you drive, etc. because she saw you one day. Saying in a group that she is always watching and “don’t even try anything.” With your gf present.

Context: Friend of your gf, good rapport between the two of you in which you have complimented her before about her non-physical attributes. Trying to get a baseline if she has attraction toward me so I can keep my distance if need be. She is very attractive and I’m flattered but trying to stay away. Her comments seem calibrated and safe but hint toward baseline attraction perhaps?