Comprehensive guide to overcoming Approach Anxiety

SpeakingPegasus · 2013-12-05T17:30:48+00:00

Personally this is a lot of re-hashed stuff everyone already knows. It's nice to see as always though.

personally I like the five second rule. If a girl catches my eye for any reason. I have five seconds to get there and start talking.

At first I was an awkward mess, but now it's a knee jerk response.

LiftBodyUpThenDown · 2013-12-05T23:02:58+00:00

Michael, you are incredibly helpful and talented. I hope our community as well as Youtube and the rest of the world embraces you with open arms.

I found this particularly helpful:

Fear of rejection is your worst enemy because it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. You’re afraid that she won’t like how you look or that you’ll say the wrong thing, so you hesitate, fidget and broadcast your insecurities to her during the approach. And if you do that you shouldn’t be surprised when you get turned down, not necessarily because of what you said or how you look, but because your body language told her that you’re an under-confident nervous wreck.

Once I understood this, I realized that approaching with confidence is what I want to do, so I'm doing it. Simply taking charge like a man.

This is something our community should emphasize:

Make it a rule that you approach the first woman you are attracted to you every time you leave the house.

Wposey · 2013-12-05T18:01:09+00:00

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Title	Comprehensive guide to overcoming Approach Anxiety
Author	MichaelValmont1
Upvotes	41
Comments	5
Date	December 5, 2013 1:24 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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