Conventional wisdom that’s never worked for you

ratsad · 2024-08-23T12:55:46+00:00

“Be yourself” is just a way to say “be authentic”

postbody · 2024-08-23T07:11:08+00:00

Pulling back only works when she has already fully invested in you. Her investment ebbs and flows but an example of when it’s at a high is when she fucks you. That’s when you can pull back and have her coming back

Kylearean · 2024-08-23T21:32:51+00:00

I've held a rule for 30 years, never to approach a woman who is paid to be nice to you. I know plenty of guys who ended up with a woman bartender or hotel desk girl

MitchArku · 2024-08-23T19:17:03+00:00

“You just have to wait for a girl to show interest in you and then you make a move” Yeah that is not going to go nowhere fast lol

LurkerP · 2024-08-23T19:22:46+00:00

“Just be yourself”

Informal_Benefit_663 · 2024-08-23T04:51:28+00:00

“Smiling is a sign a girl is attracted to you”

I’ve never seen a girl blatantly smile at me, yet I’ve had a lot of success with girls who are all 7/10’s and above. Why? In my opinion Because to be blunt I’m ripped as fuck with a chiseled jawline, and I’m extremely confident. If a girl smiles at me, that I never spoke to before, I wouldn’t think that is an invite to talk to her, I would think that would be a sign she’s nervous around me.

Not to mention as far as raw physical attraction is concerned, smiling isn’t something people do while having sex now is it? Proximity and Dilation of the Pupils has gone a much further way for me than “smiling” has.

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2024-08-23T12:28:46+00:00

Men use love to get sex, and women use sex to get love. Fucking hell, that's a load of shit said by inexperienced men. We all need love.

I've been used for sex plenty and it isn't nearly as fun as movies and TV make it out to be. And since I'm amazing in bed I usually sleep with women quickly so they'll want a second date.

No-Preference8767 · 2024-08-24T23:31:09+00:00

Most conventional wisdom didn't work because I'm very literal and I most people don't describe behavior literally

Puzzleheaded-Pin-558 · 2024-08-25T05:01:04+00:00

Id say just be nice and emotional. And never be mean or say anything that would make a girl angry or sad

This is bs and in fact girls respect you more when you call them out on their bs ( as long as its respectfully and you drop it quick to avoid embarrassing her too much )

easy-money-sniperr · 2024-08-23T22:34:05+00:00

A lot of these are true, that’s why they are cliche and said so often.

Title	Conventional wisdom that’s never worked for you
Author	uwearmeout
Upvotes	13
Comments	13
Date	August 23, 2024 4:06 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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