So Ive traveled to a new city and I was at an anime/comic/game con type space and just really enjoying it. Vibing with people, talking and meeting a lot of people. I noticed I was one of the few gents gaming girls actively (these kind of spaces tend to have shy nerdy type gents), so it was easy for me to approach the cute cosplay girls and get some convo going.

Afew of the girls I had really great interactions with, fun and friendly, just enjoying and sharing our love of nerdom.

I’ll be there again tomorrow and I want to escalate and take one of these girls home, hookup etc. But I’m wondering what kind of obstacles to anticipate and how to go about it the best way… My current game plan is -Focus on building rapport on the girls I met and enjoyed talking with today. -Transition and Isolate her by inviting her to see ABC attraction together or getting something to drink/eat. -Escalate physically while judging her interest in me -Qualify her, compliment and attract her by showing her why I’m unique and why I want her for reasons beyond her cute cosplay. -???? -Sex

I haven’t figured out the last few parts I’m hoping something will come together. Ideally ending the night at a hotel hookup or another space where sex can happen is the goal. I’m great with long form gaming and have no problem getting a girlfriend, but short term hookups and escalation are challenging for me so I wanted to reach out to the community for some tips.