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[–]shinboo2 points 11 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
don't save these hoes
[–]shinboo1 point 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
they're girls out there that are worse than guys man, straight savages. if she really liked you, she wouldn't do that shit to you. start treating her like any normal girl, get the butt if you want, and ignore her. she doesn't deserve you.
[–]sunday_silence 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I think so far you are doing it quite well. THe latest bar encounter was excellent, she showed you what a slut she is in front of you and know she has to think of what that means to you.
SO its on her if she wants to prove she's not a slut and she deserves you. As usual, being drunk does not help things. If you do anything again with her, do so in a sober environment. If it means no sex that's fine, thats excellent. See what she can be when shes not drunk. After all if you want a relationship most of it should be while you're both sober.
The best strategy as usual is to play it as cool as possible and let her make attempts to contact. its hard to say about all women, but in general the ability to be composed and level headed is valued by many women. MOST LIKELY because women tend to be a bit more emotional than men (ha! suppose?).
I dont disagree with the other comments either.
[–]n1ibor1 points 11 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
you're right, i'm not gonna contact her and play i cool when i see her next weekend. There is a local festival we're both attending so we will be drinking most likely. I'm going to have fun there, regadless of her. Now that i'm sober i'm more thinking in the way of 'there are plenty of fish in the sea'.
thanks for the advice
[–]sunday_silence 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think you are doing everything right. the only thing is that alcohol really messes with things including logic, values, and getting it up.
[–]killaswagyolo420 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm sure you want "better" answers. But this sounds like an issue for which you look to your values and standards before you look to the web.
That being said heres a tip: Chasing is mentally and emotionally draining and does nothing good for your confidence or game. It causes a pain that is WAY the fuck stronger than the quick bullet of cutting someone off sooner.
[–]n1ibor1 point 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I'm not gonna Chase her, but i expect a message one of these days (gonna meer her next weekend for sure) so i'm thinking about putting in more effot
That being said i never had this many dates in the past months since seddit. I really am gettig more confident throug experience
[–]redditisawesomeinla 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Props for being a gentleman and not taking advantage of her being drunk. Don't worry about her and just have fun. It sounds like she's talking to other guys at the bar (which is fine - she's single) so go and talk with other people - including other women. Don't put too much of your attention on her.
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