Currently sitting in a coffee shop

recipricating · 2017-09-02T22:50:45+00:00

just remember the pain of a missed opportunity. the same pain that makes you kick your own ass later in the day for excusing yourself from doing something as seemingly simple as approaching someone you don't know yet.

so dont win this game right now, just "surf the wave." dont forget to breathe and it'll be like your first day at the beach when it was just about seeing what it was like: the feeling of the sand, the water, the distances, and enjoying the vastness of it all. and don't be one of these guys that beats off in the bathroom. just deal with your emotions for now.

IAmDude · 2017-09-03T01:18:32+00:00

What makes you happy dude? Go do that shit, or watch that shit, and then share that vibe with a girl.

She feels what you feel, so love on yourself for a minute and get yourself into a happier vibe.

2017-09-03T02:31:08+00:00

Just get up and walk up and down the strip. When you see a pretty girl make eye contact with you once or twice, go up to her and say something honest, like "I saw you over there and wanted to come over and introduce myself" I don't mind playing verbal games, but in the beginning, I personally like to be up front and direct, since you are a stranger and she has no idea what your intentions are.

Go talk to anyone bro! I'm trying to get my ass to a dive bar or three tonight.

big-brad · 2017-09-03T04:12:36+00:00

Yeah put yourself out there EVEN IF YOU HAVE NOTHING TO SAY!!! Get your mind to realize that nothing will happen to you if you go up and talk. If you go up, say you have nothing to say, take a deep breath and say something ridiculous via free association. For example: see a girl wearing glasses, tell her she looks like a Japanese school girl, has she ever considered dying her hair black and putting it in ponytails and wearing a Japanese school uniform around? She would kill it at cosplay, dead ringer. Literally just talk about shit that pops into your head. Do it with a smile on your face because it's funny and you're ejoying it.

If she gives a positive reaction like laughing, tell her you've always wanted to run away like a samauri with a japanese school girl blah blah blah and away you go, just freely associating with her laughing her ass off, you're like give e your number so I can take you for sushi, she obliges wholeheartedly, and you meet up and follow the blueprint.

If she gives a negative response, take a step back, give a staement of empathy and drive on like nothing happened. Just ask what do you do? Are you a barista on break? Just keep going until she gets up and leaves. You'll learn so much and maybe even succeed through sheer will.

I know this is an off the wall response but this same thing happened to me the other day and it turned in to a very solid number with the girl asking what I was doing that night! Approaching is ALWAYS the right answer. Unless you're in physical danger by doing so.

Title	Currently sitting in a coffee shop
Author	Leo215
Upvotes	3
Comments	4
Date	September 2, 2017 10:27 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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