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DAE hold back from frequent pick-ups because they're afraid of the 'player/desperate' tag within or outside their social circle? [my x-post from AskSeddit]

ragefaced

March 4, 2011

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Title	DAE hold back from frequent pick-ups because they're afraid of the 'player/desperate' tag within or outside their social circle? [my x-post from AskSeddit]
Author	ragefaced
Upvotes	0
Comments	1
Date	March 4, 2011 8:02 PM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/fxhbl/dae_hold_back_from_frequent_pickups_because/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/dae-hold-back-from-frequent-pick-ups-because.1316159 https://theredarchive.com/post/1316159

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[–]youshallhaveeverbeen 1 point2 points3 points 15 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No. In fact, I think that if you're holding back (not the same as showing restraint :P) then you're probably doing something wrong. If anything, this material teaches you the signs to look for so you can immediately understand an opportunity as it presents itself.

Look, haters gonna hate. When I first studied this stuff I told NO ONE what I was doing. No one is going to label you a player or a pick-up artist unless you do something conducive to that label. If you happen to walk into a bar with a pink boa around your neck and other ridiculous attire, someone is probably gonna bust your balls and call you out.

Seduction is evolving, but more importantly it's moving in the only direction it can: inner frame. The way you FRAME yourself is single-handily the most important thing you can learn from understanding all of this. You have to know how to live comfortably inside of your own skin and portray that outwards. STOP GIVING A FUCK WHAT PEOPLE THINK OF YOU WHEN YOU"RE TALKING TO A GIRL.