How a guy can impress his date before the date begins (x-post from TIL)

frogma · 2011-02-25T19:12:54+00:00

Haha. That sounds great and all, it's just something I'd never, ever, ever, ever, do. That's too much work and too cutesy. But hey, I don't take girls on dates unless I'm already dating them, so I guess I wouldn't know. Still, that kind of shit is try-hard. You should be "wowwing" her with your conversation- doing it any other way makes you look desperate, even if the girl thinks it's cute. It's great that some girls really appreciate it, but you shouldn't do something cheesy like that if you don't have to.

Edit: I'd just like to stress the fact that I know plenty of guys who do shit like this and are successful with women. But still, the guys who don't do shit like that are more successful with women. Make what you will of it.

ThrowawayPUA · 2011-02-26T00:59:17+00:00

Oh for fucks sake, this is what any decent maitre d does, he directs you to the table with person who arrived first. This must be a woman who has never been in a decent restaurant in her life, and is easily impressed.

2011-02-26T02:27:07+00:00

Note how he didn't get laid and she didn't find him attractive

jamessnow · 2011-02-25T23:58:12+00:00

Ask a favor from a hostess, spend $24 on a wine tasting menu, be a gentleman.

It's surprisingly specific about the cost. First date?? Maybe I'm just a cheap bastard. :)

Title	How a guy can impress his date before the date begins (x-post from TIL)
Author	ragefaced
Upvotes	11
Comments	6
Date	February 25, 2011 7:02 PM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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