(made a new account for seddit cause some of my friends know my main account. been studying/practicing pickup for +- 2 years and i'll be posting more now that i'm anonymous :) )

Here's the deal seddit:

Met HB9 suicide girl type through my extended extended social circle, she had a BF so i teased her and simply took her details for later and pinged once in a while.

Fast forward to later: She's sending IoI's through Facebook and texts. I text "My friend X is throwing a party at X tonight, come play". She shows up, all single now, we didnt hang out that much cause i knew 80% of the people there. I did however drag her to the dancefloor which ended in some dirrrty grinding and a heavy make out session later. Of course i wasn't driving for this party, she wasn't either so she goes home before me with her friends. I stayed and partied some more.

I was out of town for a week and kept contact through occasional texts. Mostly playful frames like ex-wife etc. Back in town, we go for drinks.

On my way to picking her up my mom calls me telling me her car wont start and she asks me to pick her up at a friends house in an hour. Bad luck #1: but challenge accepted; move fast.

The place i wanted to take her to is closed because of an accident (fire i think) so we end up going next door: bad luck #2. The seating in this place is horrible, i'm sitting next to her but at a really awkward angle and reaaally low (the couch sucks your ass in almost folding you in half). It didnt allow for much kino besides hands and legs. Didnt feel right to go for a kiss with this little kino. No point in changing location as i had less than an hour left at this point.

The talking was smooth and hot, a lot of attraction and eye contact, but we all know talking alone doesnt do shit. I was limited in my kino and an hour flew by, so i told her i had to head out early tonight and dropped her off at a bar where her sister was. I went to pick up my mom and headed home. In retrospect, maybe i should have told her about my mom, because she did look genuinely confused towards the end of the date as to why i dropped her off. This was 3 days ago.

With another girl i would just pretend it was a "hang out date" ( even though i don't do these until after i have sex with the girl ) and pick back up next time i saw her.

But this girl is hot and single and has LOADS of guys chasing her and she has a lot of guys that do things for her. (free weed guy, drive her around guy, etc) She likes to make a point out of it and often uses this for shit test, but i spin it off and use it to my advantage.

For example she received a text when she was with me from a guy saying " i would do everything to take you out tonight", she shows it to me. I just laugh, more value to me as she's out with me. When we were playing pretend husband & wife she gets another texts from another guy, i pretend to get jealous and tell her i'm gonna end up beating all these guys up.(said in a funny way but sounds convincing as i'm quite big and have a hard time looking friendly) She liked it. Anyway at this point i just confiscated her phone.

My point is, statistically not all the guys chasing her are idiots like that one. I shot myself in the foot that night, i came across as the boyfriend material nice guy that just went for drinks and dropped her off expecting a good night kiss or some shit like that, whereas all i want to do is fuck her first.

Usually i move forward after a k-close or make out. This is the first time in a long time that i just stalled and actually even moved back by going on this shit date.

So now it's damage control time: I figured i have 2 options:

1) I go for another meet up next week and push things forward hard. But if the previous date was bad to the point that she pretends she's busy or won't meet up it's game over for me.

2) I give it some time before going for the meet up, which is stupid as this girl is only single for 2 weeks and is already being chased by many guys.

I think i'm on a bad luck streak as i had a car crash too on my way home from the gym yesterday. I'm going out with the guys tonight, need to clear my head a little, this whole date reminded me of myself years ago. Any feedback is appreciated.

TLDR Met up with HB9 at a party, made out. Went for drinks the week after and had an all out shitty date. I ended up moving backward because of circumstances which didnt allow for much kino. Not sure where to head from here.