Day Game gone wrong in London

acenase · 2019-08-04T18:51:14+00:00

He's not even gaming lol he was trying to piss her off not flirt with her

Imperator_Pyra · 2019-08-04T16:30:03+00:00

1) Can't hear a lot of what is being said, no real context as to what happened before that, so not sure what this guy is doing wrong (apart from the fact that he made someone uncomfortable).

2) Why do we need posts like this here at all? Even if we assume this guy is indeed a daygamer, what actual value does this video bring?

slang_jake · 2019-08-04T19:14:23+00:00

This happens when you're not desired by the woman. However, I reckon that everyone reacts differently.

xoxuv · 2019-08-05T01:13:51+00:00

This is a problem of bad game, which is reasonable to a starter, because he is trying to protect his ego by verbally fighting. For example, he shames the woman back after she shames him. By doing that, he's trying to prove his alphaness, and that's the main mistake. He's trying to qualifying himself.

He also tried to touch the woman too early, not as a reward, and with a scared body language (his body was too backwards and tense, and his arm to unnaturally extended). He was too tense, which is product of the mindset of qualifying himself to her.

After the woman started being "hostile", He should had started agreeing and amplifying. Agreeing to demonstrate that he does not defend himself, and doesn't needs to defend his ego, and amplifying to make a joke of it.

The purpose of agreeing and amplifying is to display:

-He is not trying to force it.

-He's not making an ego contest, so she can relax for not needing to save her face, and be herself.

Is obvious that he is training himself. Kudos for the practice.

Anyways, note the joyful female voices.

jiffy12345 · 2019-08-05T13:36:30+00:00

God this is a weird post to read comments on. I feel like many people are missing the issue that the “pickup artist” created. It does take practice and confidence to be a pickup artist, but it also takes reading the situation. This guy did not fail to get the girl because he didn’t do X fast enough or Y in this order. He failed because he did not respect the women’s space and ignored the physical discomfort felt in the air. The first woman was trying all she could to look at her phone, but was scrolling at an anxious speed. She was directly beside him and did not want to give him any attention. We don’t know the full story on the lady in orange, I will give you that much, but she did not want to give the guy a handshake. Her main goal was to intervene between this guy who couldn’t read the situation and this girl who was uncomfortable. By reading through the comments in the twitter post, you can see the girl on her cellphone came up and thanked the girl in the orange for intervening.

While many see this post as negative, I believe that it just shows two important stepping stones for people to learn. The first, read the situation and judge if you should proceed. The second, not every girl will like you. I’m not trying to say don’t put yourself out there. It is important to stick your neck out and go for it, but if she is doing everything she can to ignore you after you have begun talking, politely excuse yourself. She is uncomfortable and it will look much better if you respect her space and leave rather than trying to save a dead connection.

If it were me, I’d be scared to run into this guy again. I would begin to avoid the park as a whole or only go with a group of friends. I don’t like having long drawn conversations with strangers. I feel like I’m going to get pickpocketed or worry if he is going to overstep my boundaries. I honestly like guys 10x more who can see I’m uncomfortable and walk away, rather than beating a dead horse and still trying to make something of the nothing to come.

Title	Day Game gone wrong in London
Author	Semen_Emperor
Upvotes	3
Comments	14
Date	August 4, 2019 3:44 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/clxq9k/day_game_gone_wrong_in_london/
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