I'll try and keep this short and sweet. This is for my improvement, only.
Basically I spent the day, running errands, and attempting to run game on a few girls in the process. I won't go into the details of each encounter, who really wants to read a wall of text? I didn't give or get any #'s, but baby steps I think is the way.
What I feel I've learned:
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Social interactions really aren't that hard. People are genuinely nice and pleasant, especially on a beautiful day.
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Natural conversation beats lines (duh!) hands down, witty and observational humor is better then canned stuff. I tried to roll with a opinion opener, and was less successful then the natural stuff I came up with.
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Continually dwelling on using a specific opener I feel keeps me stalled. I think, oh! this girl will be the one to hear it, and then I'll chickenshit and not do it.
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Getting people smiling or laughing I think is almost more rewarding, then wanting something from them. Approval. I was doing better when I was offering joy, then attempting to leech it from others.
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The most important part of this is that it's a process, and that I continue. Beating myself up over making a mistake or chickening out is not worth while. Besides, I got a lot done today.
That is all I have to say for now. I hope to improve some more and keep the positive attitude I've adopted over this material and game. Thank you for listening.
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