Dealing with frustration

testmypatience · 2011-11-26T03:03:02+00:00

Stop caring all together about the outcome. Only do it because you want to entertain yourself. Eventually your subconsious will pick up things that are working. Never ever care about outcome at all. The only outcome is that you have done something.

Let me give you some examples.

I was out with a friend last week and I told him to challenge me to anything. I wanted to just do something. He told me to go ask a girl if I could wear her scarf. Not the normal kind of scarf either. It was the flight attendant kind. I was like... hm... I would look retarded but who gives a fuck. Challenge accepted. I got a funny conversation out of it, practice, and had something to do for a few minutes.

I asked an older gentleman if I could have some of his popcorn because I was too lazy to get my own. I actually said that lazy part too. I got a funny conversation that ended up with him telling me he was a huge part in making the clubs around town and was looking to train a protege for the lighting stuff they put into clubs. 20 bucks an hour too. Do you realize how much social networking that gig would get me? I have kids so I won't be able to do it but I got my buddy on it. All because I said something stupid on purpose.

I am looking to get a rise out of people for my entertainment. Sometimes it is a negative and sometimes it isn't. Honestly if the people are cool people you are going to get them joking back. Those are the people I want to talk to anyhow.

I ask blondes what their normal hair color is. That actually has always resulted in a postive conversation.

I asked a group of girls if they wanted to have an orgy. That was a fun and positive conversation.

I asked a girl if she was drunk enough to go home with me yet. Good conversation.

I asked an asian girl if she wanted to go to a chinese buffet sometime. She said that we should.

Stop caring all together. If you care you will fail. The reason for people taking so long learning a new language? They are fearful of failing every single time they try a new word or sentence. They are even affraid of that in front of themselves. If you truely just give the fuck up caring you will enjoy yourself.

Life - You have non-refundable tickets to it. Don't fucking waste them. They were free but you never get them back when you die. They just keep on expiring as you get older and pass up the moments the tickets were for. Don't fucking do that.

smurfbesser · 2011-11-26T00:24:38+00:00

Good luck! Wish I could give you more than that now. One thing I've noticed is once I really stopped trying so hard and concentrated on other things for awhile, it seemed to rain dates for me. Maybe that's what you need for a bit.

LogicalTechno · 2011-11-26T05:58:57+00:00

Man the fact that you are committed is enough for me to say your good at it. Keep going. Focus more on yourself; rather than on these other rAFCs or even the people in the sets you open. Inner Game will take you to the next level.

absurdconcept · 2011-11-26T13:02:45+00:00

Write up some FRs, I think it'd help to have more of your perspective as you sarge. What things do you say? Etc. You've gone out that much for that long, so I would expect something by now... also, maybe tell us about yourself. :)

reyawaworht · 2011-11-26T00:45:52+00:00

Do you take much time to step back from your nights and really examine your behavior and try to figure out what it is you're doing wrong?

iredditsolongago · 2011-11-26T01:17:54+00:00

Ask one of your more successful friends for help.

Title	Dealing with frustration
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Date	November 26, 2011 12:16 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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