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Dealing with insults/criticisms

thechocolategunshow · 2014-09-28T00:15:29+00:00

Hi again Seddit! How does everyone deal with criticisms and insults from people? From anyone really. Especially on things not in your control. For example: say...

thechocolategunshow

September 28, 2014

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Title	Dealing with insults/criticisms
Author	thechocolategunshow
Upvotes	3
Comments	4
Date	September 28, 2014 12:15 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2hnphi/dealing_with_insultscriticisms/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/dealing-with-insultscriticisms.1377203 https://theredarchive.com/post/1377203

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[–]DaygameCoach 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]thechocolategunshow 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Both, really.

My problem when it comes to criticisms is my height. I stand at 5 feet 4 inches. I'm actually comfortable with my height; i'll admit, it took me a while to get there, especially with the constant comments and insults about it over the years. But I'm at peace with it personally. My issue is that this topic keeps coming up on a regular basis, often in criticisms and insults. I've gotten comments from friends mainly, such as "awww, you're so little!" (very belittling), or "are you even standing?", "haha, you're a midget!" or my personal favourite "your opinion doesn't matter you're short!" (that's ACTUALLY been used. The topic wasn't even height related. It was COMPLETELY unrelated). One comment I got from someone I know was "if you were taller i'd totally date you".

These comments almost always come from friends, however insults like "are you even standing right now" have been used by guys before, whether i'm meeting them or meeting girls. In both cases, these comments have been said INFRONT of women, and that's my biggest issue. Now i'm put on the spot, and I have to respond to these insults. Girls are always waiting for my response to these comments.

Rarely does a girl herself insult me on my height; however, because of these comments from males and friends, i'm now anticipating insults from them. I'm too worried about these comments that I can't really focus on the conversation at hand. The amount of times a girl has insulted me on my height is VERY low in comparison to other people insulting me. Usually I just ignore these comments, or change the subject. But if I could find a way to shoot it down fast to show I don't like putting up with that shit, that would help. Because when one person insults me, other people get the idea to as well; or it seems like girls don't take me as seriously after these comments. I'm not insecure about my height; rather worried i'll have to deal with these insults and how they affect the approaches.

I'll check out AMOG. I know RSDTyler talked about this topic, but I can't find the video. Looking for any other material to work on with this.

[–]DaygameCoach 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]foxanon 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link