Dealing with jealousy.

DrakeRae · 2018-01-18T09:15:58+00:00

Dealing with a girl trying to make you jealous is straightforward.

Solution is to ignore it as if she's not doing anything. The moment you show that you are jealous is the moment she loses any attraction she has for you. Often women do this to see how jealous you are. When you acknowledge it, it shows that you care too much about her and she loses respect. So, don't acknowledge it.

Btw, this is a thing girls often do so get used to it. Sometimes, they do it because they like a guy and want to get his attention if they can't and sometimes they do it to see how a guy reacts before they make a decision to date him. They try to filter out guys who are jealous because he could potentially abuse them if he becomes violent. Some guys can get very aggressive. Girls will always try to avoid that type of conflict.

Don't let her get under your skin. It takes a bit of practice to fully ignore. Once you're put in these situations more often, you'll get very used to it. Good luck.

onfire9123 · 2018-01-18T10:06:58+00:00

Abundance mentality. If she wants to give attention to another dude, go give your attention to another woman, or whatever else you find worth your time. Think of it as a massive shit test. If you let it dictate how you feel, you lose.

iHasABaseball · 2018-01-18T20:08:52+00:00

If she's going out of her way to make you jealous, she's a waste of time. Alternatively, she's just talking to and flirting with other guys, because she doesn't owe you shit and perhaps doesn't even like you.

Either way, what's the point of losing your mind over it? 3.5 billion women...what's so special?

hunterpua · 2018-01-18T21:11:54+00:00

Here's how to deal with that and how to get over your jealousy in one:

Don't react to it at all. One, this will make her stop and she will be more attracted to you for it. Two, knowing this will make her stop and she will be more attracted to you for it means there is no reason to be jealous in the first place.

If you just can't help yourself because the logic isn't getting through to your emotional brain then either start seeing other girls if you're just casually with this girl or dump her and make it so you see multiple girls and have sex with a lot of them. Since learning the game I only got a girlfriend after already getting to the point where I was seeing 7 girls at the same time and sleeping with all of them so by the time I was exclusive with a girl it was really hard to get a reaction of jealousy out of me.

If she's your girlfriend and you respond to this by flirting with other girls you don't fix anything because she will know you're just reacting to what she's doing in which case she achieved the outcome she was looking for and this can also lead to escalation. You don't want that do you?

Title	Dealing with jealousy.
Author	ChrisKamanUrMouth
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	January 18, 2018 6:57 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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