Ok, I'm going to get straight into this. Made out with a girl the other night (work colleague), after a little I went to the toilet and I came back and she was dancing with some of my friends. She was obviously testing me, so I didn't react.

Trouble is, I was not sure how to avoid over-compensation and show no interest in her at all and be unable to assert myself on the situation. I didn't really see her for the rest of the night, and though I wasn't really bothered, it did leave me wondering how to deal with this test effectively in the future without failing the test but while also being able to interact with her after the test (or even during).

Feel free to broaden this out to a general point on tests if you wish (or even further!). Any advice is welcome.