Dear seddit, how did you learn to game?

L1stigerLurch · 2012-06-28T07:04:46+00:00

never to late to get your shit together and learn. so my advice for you: get off reddit. mingle. improve. now.

itsiceyo · 2012-06-28T07:41:05+00:00

25 year old here. Recently learned about seddit maybe like 3-4months ago. I learned 3/4ths of my game here on reddit. The other part of what i learned was going out there, and actually trying and experimenting all that i read, granted i work graveyard shift and i would browse seddit/askseddit literally 5-6hrs a night (Which i still do and read pretty much everything) What really got me going though, was accepting change, and wanting to change. Start with your Inner Game first, i had social anxiety, approach anxiety, and all that other bullshit crap, now idgaf and do what i want. Take notes, write shit down, i have a whole notepad on my computer full of quotes, links, and other random shit that i thought would help, and it still does.

If you dont like something, change it. you saying FML and all that other crap, isnt really a good start ;D start off by reading all about inner game and the sidebar. thats how i got started.

fragglemook · 2012-06-28T14:28:09+00:00

Full exposure to as many sources as possible followed by field experiments. Bit by bit. One week I would just test out disqualifiers. The next I would test kino escalation. The next I would try out DHV stories. The next I would test out saying hi to lots of people in the street and smiling.

I sat and wrote out mystery method routines just to internalise the general concepts rather than go out and spend a shit tonne of cash in nightclubs. I tested concepts out with female friends without them knowing. I tested it out with ex girlfriends, including the one who broke my heart and who was the catalyst for me seeking out the pickup field.

That particularly successful incident was probably the most confirmatory evidence that I was finally adept at gaming girls. Following on from there I turned my attention to developing a social circle of people I like. A drinking crew if you like.

One of the most enjoyable parts of learning game was when I reached a point where I pretty much loved the sound of my own voice and when talking with a female and what she was saying was getting boring, I would just interrupt her and as if I was relating to what she was on about, I would talk about what I wanted to talk about. Some great conversations can be had out there by interrupting a dwindling line of boring conversation that is on an autocomplete trajectory as it's only reason for continuation. In short; sometimes when we speak, we really need someone to take the reigns for five minutes while we get fun again.

Title	Dear seddit, how did you learn to game?
Author	Crabpeoples
Upvotes	5
Comments	4
Date	June 28, 2012 5:36 AM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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