I (F32), want to have kids and a family one day - what can I do to increase my chances of meeting someone?

JudgmentMoto · 2022-10-29T15:36:56+00:00

Maybe not the advice you want, but the advice I have seen some women need: Don't look for a partner who wanna have kids. Look for a partner who's a great person and a good match for you in other areas, then go for kids.

I understand the stress of the clock ticking, but being in a hurry and settle with a guy who's "ok" just because he wanna have kids right away is a bad, bad idea.

Get yourself out there, meet lots of people and have fun! The best partner is usually the one you find when you don't expect it.

KiwiAffectionate4916 · 2022-10-29T18:49:34+00:00

The best thing you can do is to move to a larger city and vastly expand your social circle organically.

If I were you I would socialize and be meeting people at least twice a week. Go to events, find like minded communities, networking events, find communities that you naturally like where there would be men as well. Create your own in person community, host a monthly brunch or game night. Just make lots of friends and nurture those relationships genuinely.

Also, I wouldn’t shy away from asking men out or at least making it abundantly clear you’re interested.

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-10-29T15:56:56+00:00

Move to a bigger city.

spicy45 · 2022-10-29T17:03:19+00:00

Find hobbies, and move to a place with a larger population.

g3wb3r · 2022-10-29T22:50:46+00:00

Start sayíng hi to random men

Important-Main-3828 · 2022-10-30T01:36:56+00:00

Dont seek advice on here

Majestic_Meal_5655 · 2022-10-30T01:52:44+00:00

You are in your 30s and haven't been in a real relationships that have lasted more then one year. There is something going on with you and you haven't allowed yourself to pair-bond with a partner.

hoodbgoode · 2022-10-29T19:44:45+00:00

matchmaking service

move to bigger city

Apps are best tool for women otherwise

2022-10-29T19:26:43+00:00

arranged marriage

ChadMagic1 · 2022-10-29T22:38:46+00:00

Ask a dude to help with ‘man stuff’. Touch his arm and shoulder. Smell nice and wear make up. Tease/poke fun of him a little and don’t answer text or phone immediately. Act impressed by what he does

greenOcto · 2022-10-29T23:03:32+00:00

I understand

nycthrow99999 · 2022-10-29T23:40:18+00:00

Could you tell us a little bit about yourself? Describe your appearance/race/education level/career?

project-ubermensch · 2022-10-29T23:57:26+00:00

Step 1 - Decide on the type of man that you would want to marry and have a child with

Step 2 - then figure out what type of woman they would be interested in and consider starting a family with and begin to change your self into that type of person.

Step 3 - Once you are the type of person they would be interested in start engaging in activities and hobbies that the type of man you want would be engaging in and after a while establishing your self going to different events and such things you should start to get a sense of possible suitors

Step 4 - position your self as a high value woman that hasn’t been with many men, is feminine and willing to do the natural feminine things and subscribe to the traditional gender role and that you are interested in starting a serious relationship and a family.

This is the best strategy to achieve what you are trying to achieve

Good luck

H8beingmale · 2022-10-30T01:01:02+00:00

how long have you been single now?

Title	I (F32), want to have kids and a family one day - what can I do to increase my chances of meeting someone?
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Date	October 29, 2022 3:25 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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