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[–]RedditsOlderBrah 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
do whatever man but i'm almost positive it's not going to work out. hope you prove me wrong tho
[–]Hmuniz32 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I will give it my best try man 👊🏼
[–]RedditsOlderBrah 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
i like that attitude. you'll be fine.
[–]DontCallMeTopher 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Lmao sounds like she was using you to make her ex jealous. Should’ve left after that point and worked on a better prospect
[–]Hmuniz32 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah that was also something I was thinking in the moment. I left a bit after I asked her to go to another venue. Cut my losses. But if she agrees to a date then that’s a good sign
[–]merchant_of_mirrors 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm rooting for you bro. You might have to really game her over text to really get her interested. Odds are she was reluctant because her ex was there but won't be when hes not around. Don't worry about the whole second choice thing. She has history with that guy, it is what it is. This is actually the best case scenario for a casual fling since you both know she has unfinished business with someone else and she might want to use you to get over him. If all you want is casual then that is great news
[–]Hmuniz32 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks bro. Yeah I thought so too. Gotta shoot my shot
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like trouble.
[–]Hmuniz32 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
How so? Only thing I can think of is if the ex gets violent. But idk. It seemed like she was the one that was chasing him. He seemed indifferent
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The bartender ex. You might be someone she plans on using to make him jealous and if he’s the violent type you might get a face lift.
[–]Hmuniz32 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah that’s definitely a risk
[–]Crixusgannicus 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
No. You will not.
What you will do is tell her you are going out and have some fun and you are inviting her to come.
THEN whether she bites or not
KEEP YOUR WORD.
Go have fun.
I have spoken.
[–]Hmuniz32 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Good idea 👍🏼
[–]Crixusgannicus 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is the way.
[–]Matty2Phones 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
40 is not that old for someone who has taken care of themselves
[–]omicron01 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Bruh young isnt 40 hahahahah, but either way just have your fun. Try to flirt a little bit more and then the inviting starts. Have to say it was a great experience when I had one, because she was really mature and open (she is divorced tho)
Ive got laid by a 40y old female coworker and I am only 24. But was lucky because other male coworkers were jerks and wanna be smart guys alpha guys. I was just kind and polite and that got me into bed - was feeling a bit awful because she has 3 kids but they didn't bother me (ive actually met them too by dinner at their home, the oldest kid(19) is even taller than me - really weird story)
"sailing you learn on old boats"
I said “young looking” lol. She looked like she was in her 20s. Stunning for her age. That’s cool. Glad it worked out for you. Ima invite her for next week. See what she says
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