Met this young looking 40 year old milf at a nightclub. Got her number and I’m going to ask her out for drinks

RedditsOlderBrah · 2022-10-12T13:10:00+00:00

do whatever man but i'm almost positive it's not going to work out. hope you prove me wrong tho

DontCallMeTopher · 2022-10-12T14:49:02+00:00

Lmao sounds like she was using you to make her ex jealous. Should’ve left after that point and worked on a better prospect

merchant_of_mirrors · 2022-10-12T14:08:18+00:00

I'm rooting for you bro. You might have to really game her over text to really get her interested. Odds are she was reluctant because her ex was there but won't be when hes not around. Don't worry about the whole second choice thing. She has history with that guy, it is what it is. This is actually the best case scenario for a casual fling since you both know she has unfinished business with someone else and she might want to use you to get over him. If all you want is casual then that is great news

Hmuniz32 · 2022-10-12T16:48:23+00:00

Sounds like trouble.

Crixusgannicus · 2022-10-12T19:22:04+00:00

No. You will not.

What you will do is tell her you are going out and have some fun and you are inviting her to come.

THEN whether she bites or not

KEEP YOUR WORD.

Go have fun.

I have spoken.

Matty2Phones · 2022-10-12T21:14:14+00:00

40 is not that old for someone who has taken care of themselves

omicron01 · 2022-10-12T15:27:35+00:00

Bruh young isnt 40 hahahahah, but either way just have your fun. Try to flirt a little bit more and then the inviting starts. Have to say it was a great experience when I had one, because she was really mature and open (she is divorced tho)

Ive got laid by a 40y old female coworker and I am only 24. But was lucky because other male coworkers were jerks and wanna be smart guys alpha guys. I was just kind and polite and that got me into bed - was feeling a bit awful because she has 3 kids but they didn't bother me (ive actually met them too by dinner at their home, the oldest kid(19) is even taller than me - really weird story)

"sailing you learn on old boats"

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Title	Met this young looking 40 year old milf at a nightclub. Got her number and I’m going to ask her out for drinks
Author	Hmuniz32
Upvotes	7
Comments	18
Date	October 12, 2022 1:00 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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