I believe I missed 3 big shots in one night

RedditsOlderBrah · 2022-10-09T19:47:58+00:00

i love these stories.

absolute proof that if you just get out and about and do a few things sex will be hurled at you so you have to actively fuck it up like poor OP in order to miss it.

good news OP, you'll be better next time.

spiderSlayerr · 2022-10-10T00:19:35+00:00

Sounds to me like your not so much nervous but you are just not experienced in kissing at all. Girls want confident guys that meaning they can kiss without it being awkward. Maybe ask a homie to train with him 🤷

incognito3107 · 2022-10-10T02:16:44+00:00

I see no reason to be discouraged. On the contrary, you are making something happen, it's the matter of time until you will be able to easily create proper mood and smoothly break through social barriers. Believe me, girls want to get intimate even more than guys, you just need to make your moves gradually and smoothly, like minesweeper. Make that very gentle erotic touch to her, then slowly keep progressing if she reacts positively.

theosdore · 2022-10-10T09:39:42+00:00

First off props on having three chances my man. It's okay that you didn't "shoot your shot" it doesn't matter, you went out and made some progress. That's all that matters, as long as you keep progressing and learning. SECOND, prostitute? Hooker? I am just gonna be your rational mind her and tell you fuck no. Fuck that. Do not do that.

revente · 2022-10-10T11:48:20+00:00

I believe I missed 3 big shots in one night

Yup, it seems so.

But the good news it seems like you're on the right track mate.

You obviously understand what needs to be improved. Just need one big push to implement it.

These things won't happen until there is a conscious action on your part.

And there are no magic tricks. You'll have to say 'fuck it' and do it against your anxiety.

I am even thinking about going to a prostitute and have her teach me the way to do things, I am embarrassed when people talk about sex and relationships. I don't think it's the right way to go to a hooker but I am thinking about it.

If you want to learn a skill, focus on practicing said skill instead of something completely different. Want to learn how to ride rollerblades? Then don't waste your time watching tutorials on how to flip an omelet. It'll be only a distraction.

WeaselRobot · 2022-10-10T21:04:41+00:00

You did, but it happens to everybody and you will learn from it

Ivabighairy1 · 2022-10-09T22:54:44+00:00

Only 3?!?!? Pfft ... Rookie!!!

Title	I believe I missed 3 big shots in one night
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	17
Comments	12
Date	October 9, 2022 7:22 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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