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No-Bag8255 · 2022-09-28T13:01:17+00:00

Honestly, you don't have to look as slutty/hot as people here suggest.

That might make men horny, but hey will soon forget about you. The seduction (and making people obsess about you) is a little more complicated.

It all boils down to these main steps: . - attention - this is what you get with your looks and a little bit of body language (eye contact, look in your eyes - those innocent little puppy eyes that make men feel confident and dominant, body positioning - occasionally leaning in and opening your body towards them, hand movements and legs positioning) . - attraction - this is where people get interested beyond superficial things like looks - general banter, active and non judgemental listening, light touch on nonsexual parts of the body like shoulders or forearms, light topics to discuss - nothing emotionally heavy, the goal is to establish fun and safe settings that feels good to be in . - rapport - this is where you get emotional connection and get people to open to you - you move to a more isolated area and get to know each other better, more deeper and emotional topics, alternate with lighter and more fun topics - switch them up and down, deep-light-deep-light and so on, until you get to Erotic and sexual topics. Then it's time to move on into seduction . - seduction - this is the arousing part that leads to passion and sex - once again seductive eyes, light touch - this time more Erotic places like chest (if you touch guys), back, hips, thighs and so on, lower voice, closer physical proximity, long looks into eyes (cute puppy eys with dilated pupils are natural signal of arousement, you can fake it by getting into darker areas so your pupils have to dilate for you to see), open body language

At the beginning - when you talk about lighter topics - you can be a little mischevious and provocative, make fun of things they say and so on. But the deeper the topic or later the phase is, the more you have to be open, receptive and supportive. When they tell you something that's very emotional to them, repeat it to them in your own words. They are going to feel like "oh yeah! This person gets me! They understand what I'm trying to say!"

And then.. Sex.

Now important thing to know - these phases are not strict and they don't switch in a minute. Before you get move into each phase, it will alternate back and forth with the previous one a little.

Also different people need different approach and different amount of time time in each phase. Depending on who they are and what they wanna do with you.

Also, this works like charm in other life areas of life. Friendship, workplace, business... Just tweak the process for each setting.

I've used this for years and I always got results. With girls, with coworkers, bosses, clients.. Of course I exchange the seduction part for a "sales" part and I change my body language and topics of discussion based on the situation. You'd be surprised how much sales and marketing are close to "seduction".

itsamatterofattitude · 2022-09-28T13:32:06+00:00

Step 1: Change your mindset. You will never be able to make any and every man desire you. Get that silly shit out of your head now. This is a very toxic and narcissistic way of thinking and will only lead to ruin.

RokuroMonsuta · 2022-09-28T13:51:40+00:00

I feel like the fantasy you want only exists in movies or books

and-bob · 2022-09-28T21:16:38+00:00

Women don’t need to do anything to be “seductive,” friendliness and flirtiness are pretty close together — just don’t do any of that hard to get bullshit, keep talking to a guy you’re interested in, make it known you’re single, get close and break the touch barrier first.

NinetailsDestruction · 2022-09-29T03:29:15+00:00

To have people obsessed about you need to obsessed with yourself as well

learnbyrepetition · 2022-09-28T11:42:42+00:00

Be hot, dress slutty

revente · 2022-09-28T11:47:53+00:00

Life isn't a fantasy, you can lose weight and work on your looks.

But otherwise, if you want someone you need to make a fucking move.

Outside-Coat-3952 · 2022-09-29T20:30:32+00:00

go watch Mr and Mrs Smith, and mimic Angelina Jolie. Don't laugh and be silly, fully commit to the role and guys will love it.

G_dafool · 2022-09-28T13:49:22+00:00

Let the females handle this guys. Why would we want to harm our brothers who are oblivious to the tricks we teach her here.

omega05 · 2022-09-28T12:06:57+00:00

Are you a woman? What's your age? Do what the attractive women around you are doing

Repulsive-Fee393 · 2022-09-28T13:45:35+00:00

Obsessed you say? Easy, hold eye contact, you’ll literally carve an image of yourself in that man’s soul.

zapadz · 2022-09-28T17:34:02+00:00

These videos on how to attract men may help

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TmPFpBvDIkQ

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fom0nk4ZUSU

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ELlu-XQQPZw

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ufj4LY1Wui0

1Peachman · 2022-09-28T20:54:22+00:00

You cant seduce everyone. You have to pick your battles. What you are looking for exists in fiction

Unusual-Proceedure · 2022-09-28T22:45:52+00:00

If you are a woman (assuming, since we don't know much about you), you have half the battle won.

Now...

Talk to the guy. It is pretty easy. Ask him things about his life, work, hobbies. If you show interest he will follow your lead and he will also realize that you are open and sociable.

That can spark more conversations and you will find enjoyable the interactions. You will build a mutual confidence and when you don't expect it he will invite you to hang out with him. If he doesn't do that and it's a bit shy or can't read the signals you can ask him out to do a fun activity. There's a big chance he will say yes if he's single.

Also, you can compliment him. Any compliment works with us. It is rare, we crave for it. Almost no one gives us compliments in our sad existence. Make his day with a nice compliment and start from there. You can do this!

StrictPepper3510 · 2022-09-29T03:08:39+00:00

Shit just be your self well really I like to be the reason I bring a freak out of a female lol 😂

StrictPepper3510 · 2022-09-29T03:09:03+00:00

Shit just be your self well really I like to be the reason I bring a freak out of a female lol 😂

StrictPepper3510 · 2022-09-29T03:09:25+00:00

Shit just be your self well really I like to be the reason I bring a freak out of a female lol 😂

StrictPepper3510 · 2022-09-29T04:27:26+00:00

Shit just be a super freaky n listen like a good girl u kno

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