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[–]ozzzy83 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Well, if you cannot live alone in an apartment, or rent it, then go to her place, or yes, you can do it in your car too. And why do you think it is not possible to fuck in your room? Is your room next to your parent's room?
[–]SpecialistArtist8425 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yes it is actually, I’m rarely home alone and I grew up with pretty traditional parents. If they found out I was bringing random girls/fucking them in the house it would definitely be a problem.
[–]ozzzy83 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, I understand your pain. Well, the only option is to move out asap. Until then, you can go to her place, rent an apartment, do it in your car, etc. I had that problem too, but the girl I was seeing back then was living alone, so it was great. It's hard when you cannot live the life how you want to, without being judged on everything you do.
And the worst part is that if they see a girl that you just want to bang, they will think that it is your gf, or if not, something's wrong with you. Damn, some people just want to get laid and have fun, but when it comes to parents, you should have only one girl for the rest of your life, and that's it, haha. Moms are behaving as saints, and when they were young, they were doing all those things, lmao.
[–]SpecialistArtist8425 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Haha exactly, you get it exactly, same thing here. I would ask, if trying to resort to going back to her place. Is that something I should go out of my way to bring up or should I just hope she likes me enough to ask me to come over? I always thought asking a girl “can I come over” seemed a little needy, maybe I’m overthinking it tho…
[–]TonyGTO 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bring her to her door, ask to use the bathroom, start some small talk afterwards. If she wants it things are going to flow smoothly from there
[–]revente 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
bringing a girl back to my place to try and seduce/fuck isn't really an option.
Idk, i know a dude that brings at least 2 new girls to his parents house monthly.
[–]SpecialistArtist8425 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Lmao this isn’t about if it’s possible, obviously it’s possible. Different people have different upbringings and I’m sure your friend either has more laid back parents or living conditions where either his house is set up in a way where he can have the privacy to do his own thing or arranges to do it when no one’s home. Unfortunately my parents are old school, nothing I can do about it, and my house isn’t big enough to the point where I can be fucking in my room and no one would be able to hear what’s going on. I have friends too who live with their parents and still manage to bring girls back. They have one of the above situations I mentioned where they can still logistically work it out. I do not.
[–]revente -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Have you talked with them or are you just projecting?
If they're old-school they're most likely worried that you don't have a gf at 24.
[–]SpecialistArtist8425 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yup I’ve had the conversation, they don’t understand the concept of casual dating and just wanting to fuck and nothing else. They’re aware of the fact that I’m dating, and yes probably are asking themselves “why isn’t he securing anybody?”, not knowing that nowadays with modern dating if you’re not fucking within the first few dates it’s likely you’re gonna lose your chances.
So this is the paradox with traditional parents, or mines at least, because they fail to realize in a way that their rules are directly contributing to the fact that I haven’t been able to keep anyone interested… according to them a gf is acquired by going on multiple dates without rushing to have sex or anything, yk, the traditional way. That’s still possible nowadays but of course the chances of it working out that way are more slim now.
[–]revente -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
they fail to realize in a way that their rules are directly contributing to the fact that I haven’t been able to keep anyone interested
Well, it's kinda your choice to live with them at 24.
I agree with your assertion that you need to have sex asap if you want to have a gf.
Yes I agree, so I think you basically answered my question, which was if I want to date and expect to get laid, it’s in my best interest to move out. Until then, there’s nothing I can really do about these struggles…
[–]revente 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well, you could go to her place. Or to a motel. Or try to fuck her in a car. Or in a park. Or in the club's toilet.
[–]TonyGTO 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
A park, cinema, a car, her place, a hiking trail. If she is into you, a motel room...
However, I think you need to focus on your finances first.
[–]SpecialistArtist8425 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yea I agree with your statement, maybe I should just not expect to date/get laid without getting a place first
[–]TonyGTO 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You definitely can. Just don't make it your first priority
[–]SpecialistArtist8425 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Makes sense, thanks for the feedback.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I believe you can figure something out. If you can, invite her when your parents are away or come to her place or rent some room. If you cannot, you can also simply go for it with your parents in home, but with keeping some safety measures: lock your room, turn on some music (not too loud), make sure you don't have squeaky bed, cover her mouth when she climax.
[–]Amalasian 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
so there is this thing called a hotel or motel im guessing that love hotels are not a thing where you live. so getting a room for the night at a cheep place to hook up is an option.
Why don't you go to the hotel and ask for a room?
[–]AudioReset 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Motel $40 for 3 hours.
[–]46yearoldpimp 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Get a motel that simple. You are 24 and not 44 living with your parents is not considered that strange at that age. Give them a bullshit story about why you live with parents and take them to a hotel. Hotel sex is great sex because you are only there to fuck and nothing else. No distractions.
[–]Canadian-Seductioner 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just suggest going back to hers at the end of the date instead of going back to yours. I do that sometimes, works out most of the time.
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