Late 40s One Night Stand Search Advice? [recovered]

SnooHesitations4922 · 2022-09-20T13:05:53+00:00

It's easy to overlook how simple meeting a woman for a fling actually is. The internet is full of tactics, gambits, flimflams and bamboozles, none of which u need. If you see someone you like, introduce yourself, ask her to hang out. You will surprise yourself at the results.. You instantly get your answear to whether she is interested or not, making it easier to move onto the next one without ur mind being cluttered with questioning yourself Your an older athletic guy, you shouldn't have a problem getting with younger women who haven't ruined themselves yet, let yourself be their first big mistake. You don't want women your own age because u will learn the hard way why they are still single, even if it's just a fling damaged goods will always find a way to make u pay.

5_7pickup · 2022-09-20T12:40:05+00:00

There are 3 avenues to dating. OLD, cold approach, or social circle game.

It seems you’ve ruled out OLD already. So youre left with social circle and cold approach.

Based on what youre looking for, cold approach is most suited for you. Go do some googling on pickup/cold approach. I recommend todd v on youtube if you wanna learn pickup. You can also read my field reports. Through cold approach, ive slept with dozens of girls in the last 13 months. Currently have 2 active FWBs.

Top_Client9752 · 2022-09-20T12:44:32+00:00

You should be able to find this on the apps. Just be up front about what you’re after. The trick with the apps is to have a really slick profile with professional quality photos. Find someone who specialises in Tinder profile for men and enlist their help. It’s a science!

In terms of meeting women in real life: attend meet ups, join social clubs, communities, attend workshops etc that are likely to attract people with the values you seek. Sex-positive communities like Tantra workshops and the like are worth exploring, just be sure to be respectful and socialise with everyone so you don’t come across as a predator.

If you’re feeling a bit rusty on dating, I’ve written a bunch of articles aimed at mature age men who find themselves back on the dating scene after long term relationships end. You can find them here.

If you’re interested in improving your game in the bedroom, this series might help too.

Good luck!

Edit: typos

rumsticks · 2022-09-20T13:10:56+00:00

First thing would be to break up with your girlfriend..

underTheRadarGuy · 2022-09-20T14:35:02+00:00

Quickest route for you might be singles meetup groups for folks in your age range.

Nights out at least twice a week at different venues/bars with a wingman would help as well. The nice steak houses with good bars were the hotter scene for the attractive 40+ crowd from my experience. Can hit those solo too.

If you have lower standards, Kik groups can be a good option. If you have any Home Depot runs, women can be more assertive in showing interest there.

Title	Late 40s One Night Stand Search Advice? [recovered]
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Date	September 20, 2022 12:17 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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