Asking a girl’s friends about her, to get her attention.

MacDwest · 2022-08-18T20:02:09+00:00

Not bad since sounds like you were unable to get direct interaction with her normally. Keep in mind that if it is a favorable frame the coworkers will wing you; be a fun and likable guy to them.

Use it to your advantage, and if when she is called to engage you next time confidently enjoy the moment.

Impressive-Sun-4791 · 2022-08-19T00:28:33+00:00

I (f) was at a party the other night and fancied that guy (Simon) whom I had just met and who was friends with my friend. Simon spontaneously told my friend he thought I was cute and as someone who finds it really hard to make a move, knowing this gave me the confidence to go and flirt with him because I knew he wouldn't reject me, he was just probably too shy or scared of rejection like me, so it really helped!

-Mavs · 2022-08-19T03:21:28+00:00

Ignore what some of the other dorks responded with.

I feel like this was a great move considering the circumstances.

And yes, if they like you there’s a good chance they’re talking with their friends about you; happened to me at work (worst place to meet someone I know).

Girl at work was asking personal questions but somehow she already knew my age even though I hadn’t given her that prior. There was only one or two people who knew my age and one of them was a friend of hers.

nanoepoch · 2022-08-18T20:43:14+00:00

With limited time together and zero contact, what makes you think she has a crush on you based solely on how she stares at you? And what about what you would ask would indicate that you like her? As far as they know, you're the random guy that wants to know where she is for whatever reason. What if they have no idea? Then what?

cormacru999 · 2022-08-19T01:34:14+00:00

Its weird that you're confident, & good looking & you think she might be into you, but you want to pass notes with her friends? Go up to her, say hello, ask what her name is. Do NOT walk into it with the expectation she'll react the way you'd like. Just go meet her, talk about anything except how hot you think she is, or how much you want to hook up or date. Just go be friendly & see how that goes.

When I was in my mid 20's, I worked at a supermarket, a small chain of just 3 stores, they liked to style themselves as a sort of family owned but high end food store. I worked in the seafood dept. 2 women came in 1 day, they were clearly chatting to each other but I'm just there to work. They leave with their fish & a few mins later, 1 of them came back. Both of them were a little older than me, adult woman. She says hey, my friend that was here with me thinks you're really cute, she wants me to give you her number.

I mean ok, but I feel like we're in high school again, passing notes through friends. I was already talking to 1 of my coworkers & we had plans to meet up in a couple days but no one was spoken for, so I called the woman. She was attractive, so why not? We met in town, at a restaurant I really liked, that had great food & she spent the entire meal telling me about her ex, & now she's living with her friend as their baby sitter, & it was obvious that she was still very wrapped up in the end of her previous relationship.

She wasn't mature enough to just speak to me, & she wasn't mature enough to start fresh with a new guy. I could have taken advantage of that, but it would have been a shitty experience for both of us. I called the coworker when I left, when to her apt, & we started dating later.

You might be right that she is attracted to you or curious about you. So go say hello. Be a decent guy about it.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-08-18T23:26:10+00:00

Girls should always find out from you that you are into them, not from friends or relatives or any third party. So no. Don’t involve other people into your private matters.

Plane_Reflection6053 · 2022-08-19T08:40:03+00:00

Now you gotta do something next time, dont miss

Title	Asking a girl’s friends about her, to get her attention.
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Date	August 18, 2022 7:29 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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