There’s a lot of talk in these type of circles about avoiding the trap of “oneitis”, or being hung up on just one girl.

Dating apps can work for you to help free you of the mental prison of fear… to embrace boldness.

There are times you’ll talk with a girl for a few days and then get bored, or have the script flipped on you and be the one getting left behind.

Usually these situations would sting if you were focused on one person, but the benefit of talking to 5-10 girls at a time is having the means of fulfilling your secureness and needs.

At this very moment I’m talking to 20 girls. Not all of them will pan out, but the numbers make it much more possible to see at least one of them on the weekend instead of wasting away at home.

Some will be more sexually available than others, while some will want to take things slow. Everyone’s different, but the important thing is bettering yourself mentally, learning new game, lines and ways of comporting yourself in situations.

I know it may sound overwhelming, but trust me it’ll help you overcome shyness with women, that translates into real-life social skills for your lifetime.