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[–]Turbopre2 13 points14 points15 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Always make the plans when you ask a girl out. They do not like making plans. That's where you messed up.
[–]Pobueo 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
right on. a proper response would have been "Aight I'll pick you up at 8:00" or "Down to grab some burgers?" for a softer approach. I don't think that your response was bad enough for her to ghost you though, I'd wait until tomorrow to see if she says something. Don't double text though
[–]Bodisel68 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I was seeing if she had a preference on place she wanted to go to eat. I added I know a few places just in case she wanted me to choose, I should have done better tho. This was yesterday night so I’m pretty sure I got ghosted
[–]cobraCL10 points 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Some women prefer you to lead the dance, and they follow.
I personally don't mind making plans, but despise if I have to make the majority of plans.
[–]Mmm91for 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ya bruh don’t worry about what she wants to do. Just lead and she’ll follow.
[–]CompetitionFair7686 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
1 - Women don’t like questions.
2 - Women don’t like to be given choices, so don’t ask for her preferences.
3 - Women want you to decide yourself and lead.
4 - A woman can seem to be interested a minute ago, and lose that interest immediately after that based on how you respond.
Now, i’m not saying that 100% of women are like this, but maybe 80-90% are like this.
[–]Zelphyrx -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Uhh, aren’t you answering a question right now? Or are you just not like the other 80-90% of girls that dislike questions?
[–]Connect-Pear-3859 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You should have said, we will go to x tomorrow, I'll pick you up at x o'clock.
[–]Individual_Elk_7356 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Make a plan in advance and stick to it. Don’t ask where she wants to go, tell her where you’re going. Asking does not display confidence, is unattractive and is easier to flake on. If she flakes on you more than once stop chasing it just leave it in her court and stop giving her attention- your attention is valuable.
[–]mikejamesone 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Never ask a girl for suggestions. Always lead the way
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She changed her mind. Move on
[–]-Mavs 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, that’s not a great sign.
See, what happens the following day and text one more time for plans; if she doesn’t respond I’d come back to her in a week or two.
[–]MywarUK 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“I know a couple of places with great food, I’ll take you to one tonight if you’re free and the other another night”
Should of been your reply.
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