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[–]dump_fool 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I get approached by girls at the worst possible time, when I'm in a hurry, when I'm too tired...
no approach because it's not my day
It doesn't have to "be your day", i've picked up girls when i was totally drunk, super sad. Does not really matter, if the girl likes you, just be yourself, let the girl know it's not your day but tell her you like her and you wanna know her.
[–]ProofCar1766 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Always be in a good day then.
That's something you can work on, having a bad day, bad thought, bad whatever, put it aside, thinking about it while walking on the street probably won't change the situation anyway, so stop thinking about it.
There's also a thing I'm applying sometimes that I've learnt from my boss, he told me that before every meeting he has to talk on he did some power poses in front of the mirror, saying things like "you're the best", "everyone loves you" and he would appear much more confident and happy during the meeting. It might sound stupid, I though it was, but I tried and somehow it is working.
So yeah, stop thinking, cheer yourself up, and you're good to go.
[–]f_ckupsomecommas 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I feel you man, I really do. If a girl makes eye contact with you I think that’s enough to go ahead and approach. They’re clearly acknowledging your presence (whether it’s bad or good isn’t necessarily clear) but can’t hurt to go ahead and talk. Assuming your halfway decent looking you gotta just walk around and see who notices you. You can approach girls who don’t acknowledge you if you want, but I think it’s better to go talk to them if they’ve made eye contact or even just a smile. As long as you don’t act overly weird or pushy it’ll probably be fine. It might be awkward but of course it is, you can’t just walk up and ask if they’d like to bang
[–]untitlednote1 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
i went on 3 daygame sessions in the past week. the first 2 sessions, no girls were out. practically none. city center was mostly dead. very little people out and about. somehow i managed to do 3 sets per day though. eventually i saw a few girls
the 3rd daygame session? the streets were flooded. people everywhere. girls left, right, and center. i was opening left and right. so many girls just walking around, so many opportunities to approach
keep in mind, all of these sessions i went out at similar time frames and at the same place
so why is it that the first 2 days there were practically no girls out, but the last day there were many girls out?
the reason is cause this is the game baby. the field is a wild place, literally anything can happen
[–]anonyfella 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It doesn't hurt just initiating a conversation after making eye contact, doesn't have to go anywhere either; you'll know off the bat from the sort of responses you are getting whether you can start dropping some game
[–]ResponsibilityKey427 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why not go to the club/bar?
[–]jlund14 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I relate so hard to this lmao. Just go out to daytime consistently. That way god will have no option but to eventually give you some opportunity.
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