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Artist-in-Residence- · 2022-07-25T03:45:15+00:00

This is kind of manipulative. If you’re taking about what you like in someone or your type when you first meet, Tell them you like women with the opposite color hair she has. She will try harder to win you over since girls want to feel “worthy” you’re basically cutting her out already and she’s going to want to prove herself to you even more.

That would be a serious turn off for me. If a man said that to after just meeting me, I would say, why don't you go find a woman with that hair colour then?... I would immediately lose interest.

It shows he lacks class, diplomacy and uses negging/gaslighting in order to try to manipulate you. Those kinds of men I avoid....

WhiteningMcClean · 2022-07-25T11:24:57+00:00

Do not buy a girl flowers, or any gifts for that matter, if you are not already dating.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-07-25T02:28:07+00:00

1 - Meh

2 - Nope. There is no need at all to bribe a women with drinks into listening to you. It’s a waste of money, and the girls just end up leading guys on because all they want is the free drink.

3 - Sure being fit helps

4 - No need for this. Your own personality should be able to get the girl feel strong emotions, if the personality doesn’t do it then no amount of tricks will compensate for that because eventually she will get bored of you.

5 - Sure.

6 - Nope. Flowers should be given when something meaningful between each other has happened like a kiss or sex, not before. Because it sets a wrong unequal dynamic where you are already putting her in a pedestal and thus above you. If she is not above then she should also bring flowers to the guy. Again, don’t waste money until the girl has proven to be special, you have slept already with her, and thus has earned gifts drinks flowers and everything. If she is just an stranger you are meeting for the first time, no flowers.

7 - Sure

8 - Mmmm, you should have standards and let the girl know what you like in women so that she has to either prove she is like that or has other qualities that compensate. But just the color of her hair isn’t enough.

9 - Sure good photos help.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-07-25T02:46:20+00:00

I love you, but be ready for every loser guy on here to downvote you and call you a skank for daring tell them how to get better at dating.

flexgirl7 · 2022-07-25T02:53:07+00:00

Again! These are just things that worked on me or have worked with my friends. Not saying they will work for everyone, or that you should use these exactly… all situations are different! I think that instead of guys talking to other guys about how to pick up girls maybe it would be helpful to get advice from an actual girl? Men and women think differently and chances are if a guy is following this page and giving advice to another guy on here also following this page… they both may be having a hard time (which is why they are following this in the first place) and both may want to consider changing it up a bit! No hate at all! Just my thought process and trying to help!

2022-07-25T10:27:50+00:00

why should I bother with all this crap?

women should be the ones to chase us.

if they don't/won't, so be it.

VNF420 · 2022-07-25T12:23:09+00:00

Don't listen to her. Remember, you don't listen to the fish for tips when you go fishing

UnderstandingBusy758 · 2022-07-25T09:01:37+00:00

Duck this is really good, I do the exact opposite of all this, no wonder I’m not getting dates

2022-07-25T07:57:56+00:00

Sure
Really? Having good financial sense and throwing money here and there are two different worlds. Definitely show that you can manage money well, but don't be stupid.
Yeah, activities are cool and they are connecting you more than convos. Taking aside this protection slogan, women love to have sex with well-shaped man. And your confidence, which you often get by getting buffed up.
True, many men don't realise that experiencing variety of strong emotions is extremely important for women.
Obviously
Not too often, and definitely not until you already have some decent romantic connection.
Pretty standard stuff.
Kinda like teasing, you make one step backwards to encourage her to play her own game. But remember that you should be two steps ahead already to make such a move.
True, this is like a major thing of your dating game there. You need to stand out immediately to get any attention in the first place and good start position.

Good advice is to implement the mindset of a superman, you can always get better at everything.

Amikatey · 2022-07-25T10:58:25+00:00

Good advice pick wisely from this not everything though.

starameski · 2022-07-25T13:17:28+00:00

Too many frickin rules, just be yourself…

DestroyerOfNuts95 · 2022-07-25T14:39:27+00:00

Way to go into the town name "friendzone". Follow these "tricks" on your own downfall. Besides some of them like the shape tip and the strong emotions are pretty obvious by the way.

Fun_Protection_2966 · 2022-07-25T18:57:07+00:00

Well then eek - and absolutely no offense to you, but whoever that move worked on needs therapy

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