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[–]runaround_fruitcop 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
She's 21 and you're 28. When yall are in your thirties, this age gap won't matter much.
But she's young. 21? Just legally old enough to drink and really hit the fun party scene.
She may really not be interested in a relationship and especially if she's in college.
You're 28 and that means almost 30. You may be way more ready to settle than a college age girl is.
If she's on her stories out having fun, it's cuz thats what she wants to do.
Maybe she went on a few outings with you but doesn't want something serious because she's just a kid and doing young people crap.
Have you talked to her about actually dating or what she's looking for? Because what she's looking for is important so you don't waste your time if what she wants is to be young and dumb
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[–]CocoBabeNYC 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I know shooting my self in the nuts is bad, but I keep shooting myself in the nuts.
[–]CompetitionFair7686 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You should learn self-control.
You know that overtexting is bad and yet when you like a girl you keep doing it, when you know it’s likely to ruin everything.
If you really like her there is even more reason to play it safe and not text her so much, rather than risking it all by over texting her.
[–]joos11 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
We all know that feeling and it sucks that you’re going through it. Humans are fickle creatures. These things happen randomly and subtly and you can’t control them.
[–]grindforthegold 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
dude i mean you shouldn’t be explicitly saying those things if she’s not your gf. should’ve been cool about it. also tend to try to kiss the girl in the middle of the date at the end it’s always kind of awkward
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