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[–]CompetitionFair7686 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She is pretty… ok but you need to stop putting her in a pedestal, and move on because she is taken. It doesn’t matter how beautiful they are, they all shit, and they all have flaws.
Being beautiful doesn’t mean that you have an special right to mess with their relationship, it would be so disrespectful to the boyfriend that she gave you her contact details.
[–]no_not_this 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
You need to change your mindset. This is pathetic
[+]koukman -7 points-6 points-5 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
What is exactly thenpathetic part
[–]no_not_this 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The entire thing.
Your posting on Reddit asking how to get someone’s social information so you can hit on her if she breaks up with her current boyfriend. It actually hurt typing this out. Go find another girl man.
[–]coolwater85 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
The pathetic part is that you are okay with just waiting around for the slight chance that she breaks up with her current bf.
It's okay to introduce yourself **to the group\*,* but then move on with your life. If you make it obvious that you're just waiting around, it's going to lower your value and desirability in her eyes, and it's also might creep her out.
It's okay to hope that you and her cross paths in the future, then see if she's available. But don't stop living your life in the meantime.
[–]koukman 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Maybe i didnt articulate my thoughts right . The general notion it was that if i cross paths with again. But is so unlikely that i will ever see her again and thats why i posted that. Of course i will move on with my life and i have no desire to wait around for her.
[–]coolwater85 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Timing is such an important part of the equation. Introduce yourself \*to the group*** then, if you cross paths with her in the future, that will give you the best chance. Otherwise, if you just approach her, it's gonna send a real creepy vibe.
[–]U1tra1ightBeam 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She probably gets that all the time.
[–]koukman -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
For my eyes she is what i told.
[–]Chabubu 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This girls options: every man alive
Your options: ?
If that’s the type of woman you want to be with, then ask yourself “am I the type of man she would want to be with?”
Most likely no. But that’s ok. You can change and become a yes. But not by stalking or needy behavior
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