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[–]MentalMetallurgy 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Of course I cannot save this comment even though this is high level shit right here.
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
It’s a mindset. An attitude that nothing can get you down and it takes practice. I’ve never mastered it.
[–]Spotdown23 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
How do you master it?
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
As I said, I never mastered it because I always let rejection get me down, but in order to be successful you develop an IDGAF attitude and emotionally detach from the outcome. Forge ahead to the next woman and keep going. Play the numbers game.
[–]Spotdown23 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Ya it’s just kinda rough cause it gets expensive
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The expense is secondary to the toll it can take on your head.
Poop on their kneecaps and blame it on amber heard idk
[–]Spotdown23 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
All advice is appreciated
[–]D0ntN0ticeMe 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
As soon as the bill was split, the decision was made. I think a better way to get over this is to see them as friends. I'm not saying make them friends,but talk to them as friends and don't be afraid to push the boundaries a bit. When talking to them with a friend mindset ( for the most part ) it allows for things to flow more naturally and at the end of the day be less depressed about it because your hopes were as high if you get rejected/ghosted.
It was a first date through online dating I’m never going to see them again. I’m talking to multiple girls but lately haven’t really gotten past the first date
[–]EnjoyUpdates 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
For the most part I try not to think about to much. I might go over what I could have done better and what I think I should have tried but at the end of the day, I just take the L and keep on moving on to the next one.
[–]D0ntN0ticeMe 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Try paying close attention to their reaction and just try to maintain a decent reaction, Truy something new and don't be dry, just put your energy a level above theirs and try to maintain covo
Their reaction for what? And you don’t think I’d come off weird if I was super high energy?
[–]hagakurejunkie 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Sweetheart let me tell you about rejection.
I've been seeing a girl for 10 weeks, she sleeps in my bed 4-5 nights a week, is attached at my hip, hot as fuck, sexy as hell and a total sweetie.
Two nights ago I'm driving her home after she spent the last two days at my place and she says "I don't want a relationship, I can't do this", gets out of my car and I haven't heard from her since.
That's REAL rejection and it's fucking STINGS!
You just lost a first date, be glad you didn't have any serious deep feelings for her.
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