Should I reach out to her to show that I truly care about her? (This is long, but please help me!)

VorpalPaperclip · 2022-06-13T19:04:49+00:00

If you left it open for her to contact you and she hasn’t, move on.

Please don’t do #1. That’s so weak! Ugh.

If she contacts you, ask her out otherwise you really wont ever know what happened and just be ok with that.

BruddaRed · 2022-06-13T19:44:08+00:00

Do your thing for the next two weeks like you said, she'll reach out if she wants to. Hit her up when you're back in town and invite her to join you for a fun activity.

You place too much thought on trying not to make her feel uncomfortable. I guarantee you that she wants you to be confident and assertive in your decisions, as most women do. If you get her back at your place again in the future, any girl for that matter, just keep moving things forward assuming that's what she wants too. Only stop if she tells you to do so, don't ask her if she wants you to stop. Don't confuse my words, no certainly means no, but at the same time women like an assertive man that isn't afraid to express his interest sexually.

When you first start dating, be her lover. Only after that, can you be her provider as well.

kawasakizx7rMonster · 2022-06-13T19:44:28+00:00

Sounds as though may have put her on a pedestal. And have been initiating contacting her way too much. Have big feelings for her. Yet have not had sexual relations enough with her to become so close, if get my point.

(She also apologized and stated that she just thinks she wasn’t ready to have sex that night) Could be combination this and both picked up on it, awkward. Which is fair enough. Nothing to feel ashamed about.

Seems this woman previous sexual preference probably put on spot more so than normal. Don't sweat it man. I wouldn't get in contact with her. Wait for her to reach out to you for sure.

AngeloMacon · 2022-06-13T22:19:11+00:00

Oh boy, you need to get your heart broken a couple times. I guess this is going to be one of those times.

She is most likely not interested. And the small chance that she is, it will only work out if you stop being needy. Stop texting her and looking at her social media. If she reaches out, great, just dial back the emotional stuff. But expect to be ghosted.

Thin_Protection5616 · 2022-06-13T19:50:42+00:00

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Title	Should I reach out to her to show that I truly care about her? (This is long, but please help me!)
Author	ConstantineBarca
Upvotes	3
Comments	9
Date	June 13, 2022 6:58 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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