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[–]Honest_Inevitable632 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Hookup first. Blow her mind in the bedroom. This is how you make her want to keep on seeing you again.
[–]yobro_2521 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That's a good idea
[–]Honest_Inevitable632 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
P.S. you don’t just approach a woman and ask if you can be FWB. You hookup then if you can exceed her sexual expectations, it’s up to her to proceed. Women are the gatekeepers of sex always.
[–]revente 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
1 Have sex with her.
2 Keep having sex with her
3 When she asks "what are we" tell her you're not looking for anything serious rn
[–]potatoeswithfries 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
Show her this meme.
That's what I once did and I'm not even joking.
EDIT: To clarify, the user who said to hook up first is correct, and I showed this meme to a girl I was already hooking up with.
[–]yobro_2521 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's a creative meme 😂
[–]CocoBabeNYC 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Try this line: "I don't have the good state of mind and time for a serious relationship now, I I just want to be casual and FWB with you."
Tell me how it goes.
[–]Creepy-Storage-1786 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I am not looking for something strictly monogamous
[+]punkman01 -10 points-9 points-8 points 4 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link
Dont FWB any girl. Have more respect for them. And have some more respect for yourself. FWB is not a healthy way to live a life. At its core it is all selfish.
[–]revente 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
Sorry, but your post is so dumb my head hurts.
There is nothing selfish in casual sex.
She satisfies his sexual needs and he satisfies her sexual needs.
It's mutual.
And having sex with a woman is not disrespecting her. We are sexual beings. Your bigoted views on sex belong to the past and need to stop.
It's going for a relationship for a sake of being in a relationship that's selfish. Because you want a relationship and not that particular person.
[–]yobro_2521 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is the perfect definition for casual sex / FWB
[–]punkman01 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
I am sorry your head hurts. Sex is one of the most wonderful things about being a human and it's at its best when done with someone you love and respect and trust. Making yourself completely vulnerable to the other person because you love and trust them completely is what makes sex the best. Casual sex has none of that. It's comprising what sex should be.
[–]revente 4 years ago [recovered] (11 children) | Copy Link
it's at its best when done with someone you love and respect and trust.
Yeah. That doesn't mean you can shit on people who have casual sex.
In fact, if you're aiming to find someone you truly love, it's best to have casual sex on the side until you find him/her. So you'd know if you really want this particular person or if you're just thirsty.
[–]punkman01 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
For the record, I am not trying to "shit" on anyone. I am politely expressing an opinion. Also I think your reasoning to have casual sex on the side is self serving and suggests you don't have self control. But that's ok if you're ok.
[–]revente 4 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
No? You called men who have fwbs selfish and disrespectful to women.
[–]punkman01 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No?
[–]DingyWarehouse 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Your head is very far up your own ass.
[–]punkman01 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Thank you for your feedback. I wish a happy life for you.
[–]DingyWarehouse 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
You have very little self control.
[–]punkman01 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Wow. You need some peace in your life.
[–]DingyWarehouse 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You need some honesty in yours.
[–]punkman011 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I have given nothing but honestly.
[–]DingyWarehouse1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
You said FWBs are disrespectful and then you claimed you didnt say that.
Nice try though, keep denying and lying.
You need to slow down. Yes I said the FWB is a disrespectful action. My intent was to express my opinion of what the FWB action really is and that is that it's a selfish and disrespectful action for both parties as you are using the other for your own gratification. I am NOT in any way pouring any hate on anyone. If people are ok to keep using each other in this way then fine. I won't hate anyone for doing it but I will retain the belief that it's an unhealthy activity and comfortable to share my opinion. Does that help?
[–]yobro_2521 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Even she isn't serious about me but she is not telling it out first that she wants FWB. So i thought I would only pitch it but have no idea how.
[–]The_Dark_Knight_888 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Instead of hooking up first and then doing the explaining, It is better to be honest and clear about your intentions from the start.
That way she cannot blame you for 'using' her.
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