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Fate-in-haze · 2022-06-13T04:44:26+00:00

Read Models by Mark Manson.

revente · 2022-06-13T07:45:34+00:00

Please don’t tear me apart I know how scummy I sound.

You need to change your mindset. There is nothing scammy in wanting to improve your love life.

You dating those girls will GIVE them value, not take it away from them.

Sounds like you are on a good path with all that self improvement.

Now you need to start interacting with attractive women.

Find out where they are. Learn how to approach them.

Then take their numbers and set up dates.

Contango6969 · 2022-06-13T06:43:05+00:00

Question why you would let anonymous idiots from the internet bother you. If we can “tear you apart” it’s no wonder that girls are terrifying.

by2196a · 2022-06-13T05:35:39+00:00

What I’ve been practicing myself is to build self esteem. I highly recommend hitting the gym. It’ll be hard in the beginning but you need to go consistently to turn it into a habit and then a lifestyle. Rewards will be high. You will be mentally and physically healthier.

Mc_Dickles · 2022-06-13T06:36:40+00:00

You're only 23 buddy. Calm down. There's way more important shit to be having a doomer attitude about than woman, like your money and your career. You gotta love yourself first before you go pursuing others or else you'll rely on woman for your happiness and that's the worst thing you could do. Live like that and you'll put your entire life on pause due to a breakup. Nah. Never that.

You wanna lose weight? Do it. You wanna dress better? Do it. You're going to therapy? That's amazing. You're already making the conscious effort to become a better person. Just make sure that you like the person you're becoming, and you're not just doing it for women. They can smell the desperation and know to walk away from it. No woman will fuck you out of pity so don't waste your time trying to get by with the "nice guy" approach either.

You lift at the gym? Make gym friends. Guy friends. Get cool with them and join them on their outside activities. Work on your social skills platonically and it will come a lot easier when you're ready to date. Maybe they know some gym girls! I know a lot of guys are always looking to conquer every woman they meet, but sometimes having girls as just-friends can help you out. You'll understand how women think and feel, and you'll stop idolizing them so much once you connect with them on a human-level.

Good luck!

EloteSalvaje · 2022-06-13T08:16:34+00:00

You are young!

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