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vardarac · 2022-05-28T21:17:31+00:00

Bro I'm reading this and I'm incredulous. The only basement is the depression and sense of futility that incels and your trauma have left imprinted on your mind.

You are somehow able to acknowledge how far you've come and yet still look at yourself negatively? You don't have to be a superhuman always doing new stuff all the time; it is totally okay to just veg out and just temper your expectations to what that means. And if you don't like where those habits land you now, or feel that you do them too much -- know that you had the power to change before, and you will again.

Give yourself time and compassion.

Calamity__Bane · 2022-05-28T22:26:26+00:00

new behavior can’t be learned

literally started new behaviors and stuck to them for years

Lawyers aren’t allowed to be stupid, reexamine this.

reddguy6 · 2022-05-28T23:41:37+00:00

Did you take melanotan? How was it?

Ryu_Saki · 2022-05-29T00:16:46+00:00

There comes a point where there just isn't time to do this stuff

Then make time for it.

And also new behaviour can be learned it's hard but its doable jsut as you say if you want that significant change you gotta dom the shit ton of work. I know how it is.

seastarsunshine · 2022-05-29T06:00:14+00:00

now have a beautiful fwb/gf thing (likely will end badly)

Curious why you think it will end badly. Without context, it sounds like another confidence issue worth looking into.

incognito3107 · 2022-05-29T08:46:47+00:00

Take a closer look about your computer and masturbation abuse. It's often about what you do, not what you don't do.

yoitsappy · 2022-05-29T17:28:58+00:00

Can you share a picture of your before and after pic of glow up? I've improved myself but not getting results

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