~ archived since 2018 ~
Popular
Other
[deleted]
[–]uptousflamey 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
One step at a time. Kiss her. Make out in a car and hold hands first. Three dates and no kiss means you are headed to friend zone.
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ask her if she’s down to clown and then move the circus to her place.
[–]MetaphysicPhilosophy 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Bro what?? You made it clear you didn’t want anything serious and you haven’t smashed already?
You should have kissed her on the first date. In fact, you guys should have banged already. You don’t go on multiple dates with girls you want to fuck. I literally had sex on the first date with my ex-gf.
One thing you gotta remember with chicks. Be BOLD. Don’t hesitate… AT ALL
[–]Canadian-Seductioner 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oof I'm surprised this girl is still hanging with you. How have you not kissed her after 3 dates? That should happen on date 1.
Anyway, if by some chance she's still into you after all this inaction, you should defs go for a kiss asap on your next date and if you're at a point where you don't know what to do, just suggest going back to her place. It's not as big a deal as you think it is. One great date idea is to cook dinner together. Maybe you should suggest that as your next date.
[–]CocoBabeNYC 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Text her and say "you up"? If you are going to set the frame that you are there for sex only then stop treating her like you are courting her to be your girlfriend. God guys are fucking dumb.
[–]CompetitionFair7686 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you are wondering whether you should have kissed her, you probably should have.
That’s the rule. More often than not your intuition is right that you should have kissed her.
Specially if you have gone on 3 dates. If you don’t kiss her by the 4th one, you will get friendzoned if you haven’t already.
You probably should have gone for the kiss on the first date, considering she agreed to have fun with no commitments.
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.created by /u/dream-hunter
[–]uptousflamey 4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]MetaphysicPhilosophy 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Canadian-Seductioner 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]CocoBabeNYC 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]CompetitionFair7686 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link