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[–]applejuicedrink1 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You might be attractive enough to get a girlfriend, but no so attractive you can get a girl without putting in any work whatsoever. When is the last time you've tried to get a girlfriend or ask someone out?
[–]Ready_Resource5890 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I really tried with one girl like 10 month ago, but in the end she rejected me. After that i tried to talk with 2 more girls but they seemed very dry and unintrested so i've end the conversation quickly and that was it.
[–]Therocksays2020 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you’ve approached only three women in 10 months you’re going to be single for a lot more.
You have to put in work to attract the opposite sex
[–]Disastrous-Wasabi400 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You won’t listen, but I’ll tell you the advice I’d tell myself at 17 if I could go back 16 years in time.
“Go to school, go to the gym, become a well rounded person” .. not for girls but for manhood. When you have manhood girls are just one of the perks.
You’re right about DMs. Don’t ever slide in DMs.
You seem like a quiet guy, while you’re in college you’ll get a girl or two just because you’re hot. You don’t have to stop being a quiet dude. In fact the quiet handsome dude stands out in a room of the loud and obnoxious.
[–]Ready_Resource5890 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's a great advice but i want to think that i already focus on myself..I go to gym, i'm trying to learn new skills etc..
Sometimes i feel like having a female presence around me would make me A LOT more happier and increase my life quality overall.
Only once in life you are 15-16-17 etc and that's the first and last time when i can fully enjoy being a teenager. You can never see again how is to have a 15 years old girlfriend or 17 etc.. That's my biggest regret.
I think there are 3 BIG reasons in Life - Love, Money and Health.. Missing only one of them would feel like you missed a part of Life.
[–]CompetitionFair7686 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol, so you talked to 3 women in the last 10 months and you wonder why you single? Women aren’t gonna be the one taking the initiative no matter how attractive you think you are. It’s you who had to go for what he wants and that starts by talking to 3 women per week at least.
[–]Codi_Banks 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Its about momentum. When you are a beginner starting from zero that is when is most difficult but once you get a girl it becomes much easier. Get another girl and its even easier. The more girls you get the easier it is. It boosts your confidence and it also earns you a reputation as a guy that "gets" girls. As long as you don't treat any of those girls bad, that reputation will attracts more girls.
You have to start somewhere though. Start by being a more social person in general, with both men and women. Then focus on talking to girls you aren't attracted to so you don't feel so much pressure. Eventually, work your way up you girls you are attracted to. If you have opportunities to make friends with any girls along the way, take it. A lot of guys complain about being "friendzoned" but as long as you don't let the girl lead you on or take advantage of you theres no problem. Having women that genuinely like you as a friend will make other women more comfortable around you.
Attracting girls is about providing comfort and value. You don't need to be a comedian but just be playful, friendly, and brighten up their day. They'll remember how you make them feel more than exactly what you say. Just try to make them feel good whenever they see you and they'll want to see you more.
[–]MegaManXanax 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Girls don’t need to go out of their way to meet attractive men, they will be approached by attractive men often.
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