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[–]mjornir 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
does it matter? It’s a rejection, move on
[–]Acid_In_My_Eyes 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
well just trying to learn something new
[–]mjornir 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
well you did technically learn something here, that sometimes you did nothing wrong and it just was never going to work with that person.
dating takes two and the other person has to be both physically and mentally available and open for you, she might be the former but not the latter. if she wants you she’ll come around but march forward with your life assuming she won’t
[–]Acid_In_My_Eyes 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
former but not latter? why physically not mentally? but yeah im moving on
[–]mjornir 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
only she knows why, and you may never find out. such is dating 🤷🏻♂️
[–]Acid_In_My_Eyes 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
this sucks haha
[–]mjornir 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
lol yuuup, you just gotta find peace in that you can’t control how people think, feel or act, and do as best as you can for yourself
[–]Apprehensive-Ear-201 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Best thing to do is date a random. You’ll learn what you want and get some experience before mounting this endeavor.
Don’t fuck up a good thing by trying too hard. Casual cool will get her. Also stop saying lol. Just learned that one. Ain’t nothing that damn funny being read.
[–]Acid_In_My_Eyes 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
what endeavor??
[–]1hatethis 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
It’s the “with you” rule
I’m not sure about dating… with you
I don’t do hook ups… with you
It’s the most typical of rejections
Guys will wonder. Girls will think for sure he’ll get it without me having to be explicit about it
[–]Acid_In_My_Eyes -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
ughhh thanks, can u explain the "with you" part
[–]1hatethis 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
It’s implied. A girl may say “I’m not looking to date right now” to soften it up when she rejects you
What she really means is she’s not interested in dating (with) you
[–]Acid_In_My_Eyes 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
ah okay, but why is she saying things like shes not going to date for a while, doesnt know what shes looking for, figure out her personal life, liked me last year? i dont get that stuff. like why cant she just say i dont think we would workout together, or i dont like u that way.
[–]1hatethis 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Because it’s less hurtful and you don’t feel as rejected
[–]Acid_In_My_Eyes 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
ah ok, and do u think she didnt like me last year then? just saying it to soften the rejection maybe. i guess it doesnt matter, but my ego asked it ugh
[–]1hatethis 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Keeping her option, you, open while she fucks other guys
soooo she might have liked me last year? or she might not have...and saying it makes me hopeful she will like me again? but i actually think she did like me last year...although idk
what do u mean keeping me open as an option?
idk why but her fucking other guys annoys me haha, i think cuz i still like her. but why would that statement keep me open as an option? to me its saying i used to like u but dont like u anymore. it feels good that she used to like me tho but thats it
[–]vrki22 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
[–]Acid_In_My_Eyes 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
?
[–]vrki22 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
In my experience, this is a soft rejectotion which is the worst. Don't want to hurt you but still want you around me
[–]Acid_In_My_Eyes 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
well we were friends for like over a year, and i didnt like her at first. but yeah its so soft/almost hopeful. i rather she just be direct! but i told her i needed a break so i could get over her. so im not gonna be around her anymore
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It’s called a “sugarcoated blow-off”. She’s telling you in the absolute nicest way possible, she’s not interested.
ah so theres no truth to what she said its just to make me feel better
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In my opinion based on what you posted, yes. I would add that this happens to all guys at some point or another and I wouldn’t feel bad to about it.
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