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[–]vinylsnrock 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Are you basing seeing her being the mother of your children on attraction? You should base it on her personality mate. If she gets ugly with age you'll have an ugly partner with shit personality and are locked in with children
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She might be suffering from depression.
[–]Yarmanite 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lead her
[–]Frosty-Parsley9140 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Listen I was in the same boat I had the sexiest gf 3 years bought her new tits a new vehicle took care of her. But she was literally sitting at home doing nothing but cleaning and thinking of 100 reason why she hated me. Sex was amazing. We had love but she had no love for her self and I was responsible for her happiness. I eventually got to the point were I was so numb to her that I kicked her to the curb she needs to figure it out herself you can what so ever hot girls are a dime a dozen. Know your worth. Back and forth shit is not worth it. To answer your question are you happy that’s all it comes down to. And let me tell you this cute average girls will have more happiness love and motivation it’s will be hard at first trust me. And a lot of back and forth but you gotta figure that part out for yourself
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]ThatGuy_Nick9[🍰] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Never let em know your next move, embrace anarchy, be water 😎
[+]letsgetrandy -8 points-7 points-6 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Bet you haven’t considered this… maybe the source of her boredom and lack of motivation is you. And maybe rather than giving up you could try to be more inspiring and encouraging.
[–]vinylsnrock 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Thats bullshit advice man. Everyone is responsible for him or herself
[–]ricewheelie 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yea wtf is this shit advice to inspire her. Shes a grown woman and if you are keep fighting over nothing and cant put up with the bs go find another 10.
Me and mates tried making our gfs go gym cus she gained 20kg and she just says fk off. Then its gg. Go get another girl while you are still young and capable son!!
You cant change someones habits, but you can change partners.
[–]blackopsplayer5 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Your typing has me on the floor lmao but you have a solid point op should probably follow.
[–]Frosty-Parsley9140 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Agreed 100% not responsible for anyone but yourself
[–]Divine_gex 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
I do frequently suggest to her new/exciting things, she just doesn't follow through or have the confidence to start. My sister and I recently got her to join a Basketball team, but shortly after she dropped. The last thing I want is to give up, just don't know if she's going to get better
It won’t I know This from experience. They will not change. No matter what you do. They will not
[–]Zangief89 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It takes two to fight. If you just remain indifferent then she can’t actually fight with you. If she gets mad that you won’t react then just giver her space until she stops acting. She’s probably just bored anyways. Give her something to do, put her onto Anime and video games maybe. Get her interested in stuff
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