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[–]Getrichorgetrekt 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Try to speak from your diaphragm always. Be more aware of your breath and stay calm when speaking
[–]incognito3107 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Many people have practiced talking in front of the mirror or recording themselves to good results.
[–]strikerx07 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Practice humming and lowering the pitch slowly as much as you can for as long as you can in one breath (careful not to get too light headed). Practice that like 10 minutes a day, and remember: - use your diaphragm. - make the sound resonate with your chest for power rather than trying harder.
[–]Gaengaz 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There are programs that help. Never tried one myself but take a look at this one for example: Roger Love, Vocal Power.
[–]cass2769 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
How old are you?
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[–]cass2769 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
So your voice probably won’t continue to drop. This is one of those things you should learn to accept about yourself. We can’t change everything
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[–]cass2769 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Gay men don’t make their voices higher. There’s a documentary about this…I wish I could remember what it’s called
[–]Diligent-Race-8566 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same problem. 17
[–]SmallSorbet 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I wouldn’t be so hard on yourself. You just need to own it. Have you heard Neil Strauss speak? We all know about his success with women.
[–]Electronic-Pipe202 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You can't. Voice exercises make negligible differences, surgery is the best option.
[–]Stujitsu2 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Who cares if you sound gay youll come in under their radar
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The “gay” voice might be working in your favor and you don’t know it. First of all, your voice might not be that gay at all and second of all women are less threatened by men that have a lower pitch.
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