Don't understand girl's response after asking her out. Not sure what to do next.

Liberaler · 2022-03-25T16:42:24+00:00

It's been 2 months so far, so I caved in and asked her out

Why did you wait so long? I'm sure it did not take you 2 month to find her attractive. She must have put you in her friendzone in some way. What else would she do? You did not make a move on her for such a long time, while spending a lot of time with her. You did not behave like a guy, who is interested in her in an romantic/sexual way.

I did it over the phone and she was kinda surprised

What exactly did you tell her? - This detail is important to decide the next step. I hope it was not a confession.

Friend confessions almost never work on women, because they result from men waiting too long, while the woman already has put the man in the friend box. The right way to do it is to not verbalise it and slowly increase the tension (over time), til you escalate. You can ask more or less strange women out but it does not work on female friends under normal circumstances.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-03-25T16:32:29+00:00

She is not interested dude. If she forgot that says it all about how low her interest is. Girls who are interested don’t forget

ResponsibilityKey427 · 2022-03-25T18:11:04+00:00

She trying to avoid it because she doesn’t want to let you down

abcabcme · 2022-03-25T19:02:01+00:00

Don’t shit where you eat.

MattPruga · 2022-03-25T19:08:12+00:00

Believe me, if a girl was interest she would make it clear immediately. You took to long to ask her out, you became her best buddy. State interest faster, show balls and confidence. Do it in person, that way she can't leave you on seen or give you an excuse, just a straight up yes/no.

Lost cause here, move on

Title	Don't understand girl's response after asking her out. Not sure what to do next.
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Date	March 25, 2022 4:18 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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