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Archyblackcat · 2022-03-13T00:59:32+00:00

The advise is good ( it may just be worded wrong).... just don’t try to show you’re in demand by talking about other girls.. she will notice by the way other girls look at you, their tone when they talk to you , by hearing other girls talk positively about you etc.. plus if she feels attracted to you, then she automatically assumes other girls see you the same way.. so in this case you have nothing to prove .. if she doesn’t feel attracted to you though, then no matter how much you try to prove youre in demand , she won’t change her mind.. until she witnesses other girls attracted to you without you showing it off, then she may follow.. (Or not) at this point just move on,, some other girl will fall.. just not this one

cronasminate · 2022-03-13T03:01:05+00:00

You are never supposed to say or imply you are a player in the first place. Trying to make yourself seem like a fuckboi is tacky af. You are a person who has quality people as friends whether they are men or women. What you do with them is your business. She is not your priority if you just met the girl. Has she proven herself. If they expect you to be loyal for no fucking reason then you are simply overvaluing her if you believe that.

No_Acanthisitta5052 · 2022-03-13T00:00:56+00:00

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VeliVoy · 2022-03-12T23:26:04+00:00

This advice is mostly when you're looking for a relationship but might hold true in other cases too

VeliVoy · 2022-03-12T23:34:30+00:00

Loyalty (or acting to be loyal) is the way to go

emkehh · 2022-03-13T04:53:16+00:00

Yeeeeeah trying to make the girl jealous or whatever will push her away without fail, if not actually hurt her. I’ve been that girl a few times now and the way I see it, you’re either currently occupied or an asshole who plays childish games, but either way, fucking OW dude no thanks.

I like that you had your own little “come to Jesus” moment here.

TheRiverOfDyx · 2022-03-13T08:49:57+00:00

Never EVER try to unintentionally get the girl jealous.

Even when you don’t know that sets girls off, you’re just making conversation, it sets them off.

Act like other girls don’t exist, and make sure you feel the same way about her too, for good measure. Girls aren’t real, they’re just illusions.

No_Acanthisitta5052 · 2022-03-26T02:21:34+00:00

This is partially correct. Don’t be rude, and do not be silly. Have a spine, and have fun.

You last sentence is bs. She will smell the lie. Don’t lie, and what the heck? Why talk about falling so early, get a grip.

I don’t think you know how to talk to a girl if you feel like you need to narrate how much you ‘like’ and how much you are about to ‘fall’ for her. Please...

Sit. You are a fraud. Why can’t you just have fun, be worthy of company, and then start with romanticism afterwards? Oh yea, you are just so average you don’t get to have a period of fun. You need to bet on romanticism from the bat to have a shot. Yuck, FRAUD.

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