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Top-Conversation678 · 2022-03-04T17:25:38+00:00

Bro what will happen if she rejects you? Will you get crushed mentally? You are playing a dangerous game if you get a crush before you know if shes even interested, as for what to do next id say just be direct no more beating around the bush

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-03-04T18:16:19+00:00

Rule of game: Don’t develop crush with girls.

You are already fucking up. One of the key principles of seduction is to avoid putting any girl on a pedestal and avoid developing oneitis for any girl, in order to avoid being outcome dependant, which kills your game.

If you have a crush you are naturally outcome defendant, you will try too hard, you need will be needy, and walking on eggshells avoiding as many risks as possible to avoid fucking up your chances with her specifically which is the opposite of the attitude you need to have.

Another important fundamental principle is don’t go with the mentality of “developing something special with a girl before you have at least fucked with her first”.

You haven’t even talked, you haven’t made out, you have had sex, and you are already hoping she would become your girlfriend? Bad, bad mentality before you even begin.

And yeah about conversation, there are basic skills you need to be good at to generate attraction, teasing, roasting, sexualisation, qualification, and humour…

All in all, i see 98% chance of this not going anywhere based on how noob you are about all this. No point, you need to understand the fundamentals before you even think about seducing any girl.

MegaManXanax · 2022-03-04T22:07:35+00:00

First thing you do is lose that crush. Easier said than done and sometimes it just happens. But you do NOT want to have a crush on someone you haven’t even asked out yet. It is bad bad bad bad bad. It fucks with your head. It’s almost kind of like a episodic mental illness that most guys experience every now and then. Try to snap out of it. Idk how but just remember that she shits, probably smells at some point in the day like everybody else, might have a terrible personality or tons of baggage. You don’t really know her yet. Try to be more cynical about her until you really spend time with her and get her on a few dates.

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