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[–]PondScum420 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Redditor: has sex “what did I do wrong?”
Jk, but hey man that means it felt natural, that’s great. It’s better to go with the flow then seeming like you’re executing some preconceived plan. Congrats on the sex
[–]Delicious_Ad_1853 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Society has become increasingly sex-positive, but women still face a lot of slut-shaming. A "good girl" isn't supposed to go into a date wanting sex.
But they do like and want sex, of course. So there's a very common defense mechanism where they act like they didn't see it coming. They just "got caught up in the moment", etc.
Don't take it personally. She fucked you, so you must be doing some things right!
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Most girls told me that they didn't expect those things like sex or kissing, that's why I'm a little overthinking. And also I'm a beginner in this world, I don't have much experience and I'm still learning. Thanks!
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Also I'd like to add that I never escalate, as described in the post. I never touch girls, I never complement them, I'm normal and neutral. We just enjoy eachother company, nothing more.
[–]Delicious_Ad_1853 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
If you don't escalate, how did your penis get inside her?
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I don't know, it just happened, I'm not joking. It's something spontaneous for me, like I don't do anything special
[–]TheRiverOfDyx 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So, you’ve escalated “touch” to the ultimate level, on the first go. Didn’t even have to touch her hand.
This should make you way more comfortable touching other people normally now, eh? You touched a woman on the inside, your next attempts can certainly include touching inside
Mate I’ve had dates where a girl wanted to kiss and fuck and I completely did not see that at all. To me it was just a coffee date but she touched my hand, touched my thigh but laughed it off like a joke and I believed her. I was so naive back then.
You had sex, you can definitely touch hands. It’s way more lewd than sex.
[–]Delicious_Ad_1853 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sweet. That's the goal, for it to become automatic.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Most girls (especially younger ones) won't tell you that she wanted to fuck you. They need a false pretext such as coming to your place.. And one thing led to another.. And boom we had sex.
We men just need to accept that. And play the narrative. Women love sex but they don't want to feel "yucky" in the morning. And they are afraid that you might judge them.
Because there are asshole dudes out there who might have told them they are too slutty.
So don't think too much about this.. If you are "too nice" they might not even have slept with you. You are a sexual guy who makes them comfortable to sleep with you.. Just run with it.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Ok, I'll try to go with the flow as I always did, without overthinking.
Yes..
Dude if a chick is sleeping with you, she definitely wants to have sex with you. Or she wants to have sex and you are the first person she thought of that night... Regardless she wanted to bone..
So stop over thinking.
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It is not necessarily a bad thing, maybe you just lead the relation different way comparing to average fuckboy. Look more at the emotions and connection, rest is just a background.
[–]Minute-Lie-2287 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Many rarely expect it, they just go out to have fun. Men will plan an evening so the opportunity is there.... women are primarily thinking of being entertained.
Others it's just something they say.
[–]OThinkingDungeons 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Think of it as a compliment, this is usually a woman's way of rationalising the events.
You're great at escalating!
[–]mightymite88 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I get the same reaction, but that's 100% my intent. That's just how I like to game.
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