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[–]EscapeVelocity83 14 points15 points16 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
A cold approach is one where the woman is not expecting an approach. They go to bars and clubs expecting to be approached a lot.
Try the grocery store with a woman who did not even notice you. Thats a cold approach
[–]Ordinary-Bat-5157 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
To be fair I don’t think they noticed me at all before I approached them lol. But I hear you thanks for the correction
[–]MrStallion22 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well done bro, you’ve got the right mentality, it’s all about building up your experience. Simple thing to improve would be to get the number next time, rather than socials. Numbers mean nothing - but they mean more than socials ;)
[–]phillypiston 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Girls, especially hot ones, hunt in packs. The cowards will bother them when they are alone but you showed your status by approaching the group. Congrats on controlling your fear, not letting fear control you.
Practice makes perfect. Having a routine, standard approach, and/or stories to give you a foundation to work with until keeping a (quality) conversation going becomes second nature.
Keep it up!
[–]gt35r 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The 3, 2, 1, fuck it method is honestly the best mindset to have. A lot of people have probably used this before without realizing it, that little push over the edge is all it takes and ends up being the scariest part. Hesitation is the enemy in this game.
[–]mazxmazx -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Congrats fam
[+]Sup3rHD -8 points-7 points-6 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Dont do cold approach, its useless. First see if a girl gives you signals like eye contact etc, than u can go talk to her...
[–]MrLovingTiger 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This is bullshit advice. I’d say approach as much as possible. If you’re attracted it’s your job to go attract her
[–]Sup3rHD 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No, a girl knows right away if she is attracted to you or not. U cant buy attraction.
[–]MrLovingTiger 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s good that you think that. More hot girls for me
[–]DoomerToChad 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Bullshit advice. Approach whoever you want and face rejection if it comes. Be a man for fucks sake.
[–]Sup3rHD 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Why do i even want to waste my time with a girl that is not interested.
[–]DoomerToChad 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You don't know if she could be interested if you don't open your mouth.
[–]Sup3rHD 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
physical attractiveness in the number one factor for women. If she doesnt like you physically, no matter what you say, she is not attracted to you like that.
[–]cronasminate -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's still cold approach but with extra steps.
[+]EscapeVelocity83 -6 points-5 points-4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Like this 16yo at the coffee shop yesterday? Im 38 why she think she should be eyes towards me? If women want relationships, theyre retards because not a single woman that has been interested in me could relate.
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