Contrary to all the advice you've heard, it's okay to be selfish.

To have a backbone to say "No, that's not what I want to do", is attractive.

The other day I cancelled my trip with a woman I was seeing because she disrespected me. I did it with no hesitation. When she confronted me about it, I felt relieved because I'm going to enjoy myself and I don't want her negativity ruining my trip.

This past week I've probably spent around $1500 on external shit because it's what I want. I'm not buying it for women. I'm not buying it to impress anyone. It's for me.

I purchased shit for my crib because I wanted to express my identity and was tired being a full grown man and living like a kid. But I didn't do it for anyone but myself.

I've been told by women I would look better if I shaved my beard. I told them "No, I like my beard. I'm sorry you don't."

I feel more in control of my life and it feels really fucking good.

I'm taking a trip to Hawaii just because I feel like it. Not bringing anyone with me. I just want to have fun.

Sometimes there's more to life than just trying to get laid. Focus on yourself.