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vinylsnrock · 2022-01-13T23:16:27+00:00

Try meeting girls offline. There's a reason those chicks are on dating apps, when it's so easy for them to get mens attention offline. Mentally healthy chicks are unicorns online

Swarley--stinson · 2022-01-14T02:47:49+00:00

I will give an advice that I wish somebody talked to me before: learn how to communicate well. Not only with girls, but with everybody. Learn how to be a good storyteller. Learn some interesting things to say. Read a lot. Speak a lot to audiences. Be a better comunicator.

When you start to develop these skills, it will translate to your text game, to your cold approaches and mostly to your 1st dates. I consider myself a great 1st dater because I always make it fun, light and interesting. I don't do it for the girl. I do it for both of us. I talk about my childhood. I ask her about hers. I palm read her. I tell stories about college, my family, weird 1st dates I had. It is not that hard.

Besides, in date apps there is one thing that is key: you have to have great photos. Not only good ones. You have to have Full HD pictures with good light, good scenario and good clothes on. You have to show why you are someone to be met. Photos with hobbies are good, but well taken photos with your hobbies are killers! Best investment is to pay for a phorographer and reaearch the internet to some pictures to be inspired. If you like to cook, look for men cooking photos and take a similar one.

The most important point is: it is rational game. There are a lot of moving parts, but it is like a sales funnel. You have some leads, you have some offers and you have some sales. If you improve communicarion and the pictures (the product), you will sell more and convert more. This is true for online dating as well

Eye_of_Horus34 · 2022-01-13T23:46:22+00:00

At your age with a lot of women, looks are a big part of it sadly. Work on that department as much as you can. I’ve found in my 30s that isn’t as true although looks never hurt you that’s for sure. At your age I was a skinny nerd. At 35 I’m decently muscled and age has actually taken away my baby face and I get called “hot” for the first time in my life.

Also, if your dates are basically just you fucking, chances are these are shallow connections that have little chance of lasting. Not that you have to wait to have sex, but if you are fucking right away and not really connecting much in other areas what’s going to make the girl want to stick around? Especially if it isn’t great sex. Under age 25 women are hard to lock down in the modern age. Think of them as having adhd when it comes to dating. But connecting on something other than sex, while also being sexual, is probably what you are missing.

I had the same problem for a long time myself until I got into my 30s. From 25-30 it actually became really easy to have one night stands but I felt like I couldn’t keep a girl around. The problem i found for myself was that I was just screwing every girl I thought was hot and really had nothing in common with hardly any of them. Once I started finding things other than sex to bond on with them I began having actual relationships. I also follow Corey Wayne’s dating advice especially in the beginning. Call or text once a week to set a date and basically don’t talk to them hardly otherwise. After a few weeks they become the chaser if things go good.

Hope some of this helps in some way.

alabamaoracle · 2022-01-14T02:44:39+00:00

Network Network Network …do the things that others are not… Apps don’t help you build raw confidence, but putting yourself into uncomfortable situations, over and over Will put you far ahead

epilamun · 2022-01-13T23:16:21+00:00

You just need some need friends mate. So do I tbf so I guess the first question is how do we find them?

BrandonLloydTanner · 2022-01-13T23:42:22+00:00

Get shredded or built bro, then come back to the ladies.

Also what dating sites are you using? Tbh tinder is more of a hookup app. Try hinge if you haven’t already

Tonic_Turbo · 2022-01-14T14:09:24+00:00

While height might be a bummer, im 5'6 with an adequate dating life, I am otherwise very fashionable and really good when meeting in real life. Im in okay shape. I have a friend who is 5'5 and shredded with a lot of muscle and his dating life is just incredible compared to mine. Okay is not enough, be great.

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