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KingHydron · 2022-01-13T05:45:40+00:00

I am not sure if you are doing this but 1 thing I learned is not to talk toooo much over text once you get a number. I usually send a maximum of 3 messages before I try and arrange something… and try to do it in a clever way. Goodluck

Connor4really · 2022-01-13T05:22:35+00:00

Try to set up more insta dates rather than just getting the number

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-01-13T11:03:14+00:00

Don’t go for numbers, go for instant dates. That is after talking for 5-10 mins, suggest going for a coffee right there on the spot. The connection needs to be built in person, the stronger the connection the less likely girls will ignore you.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2022-01-13T06:12:36+00:00

Typical for guys who go out with the goal of getting numbers. Don't you realize women can feel this? It's no different than a woman who starts talking to you only because she can get something out of you like hoping you will buy her a drink at the bar and then fuck off.

Change your purpose for approaching to seeing if the woman is interesting to you. And then, only if she is indeed interesting start thinking about making her the luckiest girl in the world and getting her number or giving her yours.

imayscamu · 2022-01-13T12:37:54+00:00

Set the date while ur talking with her in person then get number and from there your texting is basically just logistics and confirmation.

RickyRiccardos · 2022-01-13T14:06:48+00:00

What you mean by hook

professor_dunce · 2022-01-13T10:09:59+00:00

On a black pill perspective, girls give you there number just to get you out of their hair. Try asking for insta instead, it's much less creepy and it gives you social prove that you are popular (online at least)

DonMacorli · 2022-01-13T06:45:13+00:00

While talking to her try to set the date, then just ask for the number to arrange day and other stuff. That way you know she already agreed going out with you

Sup3rHD · 2022-01-13T09:57:10+00:00

Get the number, than after 1/2 hour text her and set up a date.
Give her 2 days to choice. You dont have to escalate, a girl is attracted to you or not.

DaydreamingMister · 2022-01-13T14:32:50+00:00

I understand some girls may just give me the number because they don't want to reject you to your face, or because they just want me gone, but that doesn't feel like the case because I do a good job of giving off a comfortable vibe, not acting stupid.

Assuming the above assessment of yourself is, in fact, accurate...

Maybe you would do well to start handing off YOUR phone number at the end of that winning conversation you just led with the lady.

(Peaceful, relaxed vibe) Well hey - I gotta get going. Love to talk to you again, though; we should get dinner sometime. Take my number so you can reach out when you're ready to schedule something.

Then you give the number & tell her to enjoy the rest of her day, just before you turn and exit with your head held high.

*And the most important part for afterwards - you go on with your life and forget about her, unless she reaches out ready to schedule a date.

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