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[–]Canadian-Seductioner 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
Here are mine:
Getting a girl's IG is better than getting her number.
Ghosting (when you barely know the person or have only been on one date) is not as big a deal as most people think. If a girl ghosts, it means she's not into you, simple as that. You don't need more information, the information is the act of ghosting itself.
Sitting across from a girl on a date makes no difference to sitting side by side to her.
Activity-based dates are best reserved as second dates. Similarly, dinner dates are not good first dates either. The best first date is a simple drink at a bar.
The reason most guys fail at dating apps is not because the chads get all the girls there, it's because they haven't done anything to improve their attractiveness and their profiles are shit.
Edit: one more - going silent after you've set up a date via text will lead to more flakes/ghosts than continuing to text her up to the day of the date (assuming you don't go overboard with it).
[–]bruhidkanymoretbh 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
why is getting a girl's IG better than her number? I've been asked for my IG over my number and it comes off insincere/they're not as serious lol- i also wholeheartedly agree with your last point!
[–]Canadian-Seductioner 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's easier to establish comfort, build rapport, and maintain attraction via someone's posts and stories on IG than it is to simply text them from a faceless number.
You also have to keep in mind that in this subreddit, our goal is to get laid, not get locked down, so in a way, being casual in this way also makes our intentions clearer.
[–]softwaredev 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
1) Men should be dating multiple partners just for sex and wait until one asks them to be in a relationship, this way you are the one doing the choosing
2) Men who complain they have good jobs and are not fat but cant find a relationship or get matches need to understand that having a job and not being fat is not that uncommon LOL
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree with the first point, to bad I can’t put it into motion. I don’t think I’m a bad looking guy, but I can’t get girls to like me. Idk, I’m trying my best and I’m a million times better today then I was two years ago, but it’s hard
[–]Casanova-Quinn 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Regarding your 2nd point, I think it’s not so much that it’s actually common, but more so that it’s just the bare minimum. You shouldn’t be fat and broke in the first place, you’re not some special prize just because you’re not.
[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I don’t get number 4. Is there some bigger meaning behind that? It seems obvious someone wouldn’t want to date someone who they don’t find attractive
[–]softwaredev -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think OP is saying women who cant find a healthy relationship should look at less attractive men if they really want love asap LOL
[–]eyesopen1111 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why is the original post deleted 4 hours after posting?? Why does this sort of thing happen so often in this subreddit?
[–]BrummieAMN19 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
“Never double text”/“play the cool guy” is a stupid rule and made up by insecure men who rather put their ego over getting pussy. Especially true for online dating you strike when the iron is hot.
“It’s just a numbers game bro just approach and take massive action”- This is far too simplified and this is terrible advice for a AFC beta and other hardcases, without a proper strategy which is correct, efficient and optimised you shouldn’t even be doing approaches. It can actually be a negative as you’re reinforcing incorrect information onto your brain. Also introspection is key, you’ve got to analyse where you went wrong and how to improve rather just autistically spam approaching.
Todd V, RSD and particularly RSD Tyler are a joke and total frauds who should be ostracised from giving any form of dating advice. They’re one of the biggest frauds in the PUA community. Anyone who tells you they’re good is getting zero lays or with disgusting looking women.
You can succeed in online dating without being white, tall and being classically handsome.
You don’t need a thousand nights/years out to get good at game, that’s just a lie coaches tell you because they’re fucking dogshit. 2 months at most is enough for you to have game sorted.
Location is the most important indicator of success with women
Daygame is largely a marketing ploy and it’s extremely overrated. It’s akin to Instagram game where you’re running ridiculous volume. Exceptions are at a uni campus.
Nightgame>Online Game>Social Circle>Daygame
Only PUA techniques that are effective and solid is DHVs, qualification/disqualification, compliance/yes ladder, false time constraint and the buyer-seller frame. Rest are unnecessary to downright BS. After these techniques rest of your game should be leading the interaction forward, sexualising, setting up dates, subcomms and handling objections properly.
Objection handling is the most underrated yet one of the most significant parts of game that are never talked about. How guys who are relatively experienced with women give up the moment she says “I can’t leave my friends” is beyond me. Or on texting when she has a logistics or hookup objection.
You can do all the “building attraction” techniques and being a dancing PUA robot monkey but it’s worth absolutely nothing if you’re not going for the kill and move things forward. Far too many on here overcomplicate and gatekeep game and think you have to do all the “common techniques” for it to be counted as “good game”.
Yes you can do a date straight to your place or her place.
The aim of a first date is to set up the logistics for sex or make it man to woman at the very least.
“Let’s take things slow” is just a cope, you should fuck the girl as fast as possible. Don’t be a relationship/provider guy, it is a detriment rather than an advantage.
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